SJ69 Posted June 20, 2015 Posted June 20, 2015 (edited) Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months and we are pretty opposite in most ways. I like to chill and hangout, and she's more of a going out and drinking type of person. We live about an hour away when we're not in college and she doesn't really invite me to much, although she occasionally does. I just see her on social media enjoying her time in revealing outfits. I do believe she really loves me and wouldn't ever want to breakup, she wants matching tattoos, but after multiple times of me telling her that she needs to chillout and multiple other things, she continues to go out and do most of whatever she wants. Idk if I'm jealous because she goes out more than me and enjoys her time more than I, or if I truly have every reason to be a bit frustrated. Every time I confront her she has 1000 excuses, that's with everything in her life, and says she "thought she did good" with the outfits, criticizes me for complaining and not complimenting her, doesn't respond, insults, etc. I'm just very confused on what to do. I'm almost at a point where I don't care anymore and I have given up because I see hardly any progress being made. I love her a lot, we're young, 19 & 20, and we really do enjoy our alone time together, but in public she doesn't know how to act and always finds a way to make me mad. I know I would be unhappy without her, but I'm very frustrated with her actions and her responses. There's no reasoning with her. It's a dead end. I tried to insinuate a break, but she always says she "doesn't do breaks, if we break up, we're breaking up for good". I really need help on this, what should I do? Edited June 20, 2015 by SJ69 Missing information
WhatYouWantToHear Posted June 20, 2015 Posted June 20, 2015 Break up for good. You've provided no concrete example of her doing anything wrong. You hinted about maybe being jealous, but provided no situation in which she acted inappropriately. You lamented about how she made you mad, but gave no example. Keep saying she's frustrating you, but didn't explain how. Then you closed saying how you didn't care anymore about any of it. Seriously, break up. It's going to happen some time, save yourself some time and do it now and move on.
readynow Posted June 20, 2015 Posted June 20, 2015 So you're expecting her to change who she is to make you feel comfortable? She shouldn't have to do that. She's 19 and this is the best time to enjoy her life and do whatever she wants. Break up with her and find someone who wants to sit at home and chill too.
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