Lucky4855 Posted June 19, 2015 Posted June 19, 2015 My boyfriend of 10 months and I just broke things off last night. He being 26, obviously went into this relationship wanting something very serious/spend the rest of his life with me so he told me. We've had up and downs like any relationship but in general had a good connection over all. We had a fight last week, which ended up in him losing his temper and screaming at me. We finally talked things over and he decided that we aren't able to fix this relationship. He said it's not fair for me and or him to be in a relationship where anything can trigger his anxiety & loss of control of emotions. He needs to be out of the relationship with me as his mental health is taking a toll. Is this something we should have walked away from? I don't think he will be ever contacting me in the future for a second try, I just feel at a total loss right now, even if things are for the best
La.Primavera Posted June 22, 2015 Posted June 22, 2015 From what you have said it sounds pretty serious if he needed to end the relationship because he was unable to control his emotions or anxiety anymore. He needs to put his mental health above everything else. That is why I think you should trust his judgement on this even if you think it is a mistake. I'm sorry you are hurting, it must be a very hard and confusing time right now.
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