Gemini02 Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Lately, my boyfriend and I have been arguing constantly. Well, I guess it isn't constantly because we hardly see each other anymore. He works the night shift now: 11:30pm to 7:30am. I work normal day shifts. When he's awake, I'm sleeping, and when I'm awake, he's sleeping. We both have Monday's off, but we still have to keep our own sleeping patterns or we'll get all wonky. So there's about a 3-4 hour window where we can be together and neither on of us is too tired. And when we are together we fight and bicker so much. I'm starting to find all these anoying things about him We've been together for 2 years and I still hope we have a future in this, but sometimes I'm not sure. He does romantic things for me, and they just don't effect me like they used to... It's like the time we have together isn't enough, and it isn't good enough. On top of all this, he's stressed out about money because he doesn't have any (he hasn't gotten paid yet). I'm serious, he has about 30 cents right now. He owes money to me, and his roomate... He doesn't have a proper bed, so he isn't sleeping properly either. I'm stressed too in my job, about money, about what I'm gonna do in my life, and about this relationship... Should I wait out the storm and see if things get better, or is it time for a break?
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I think you should talk to him honestly about how you are feeling, hear him out on the same issue and decide after that if a break is in order.
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