Brigit Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 I did. She sent me a bunch of screenshots (selective screenshots of course) to prove she has done nothing wrong. The conversation did seem fairly platonic. This may validate that she is adhering to rule #1 from the article, but I still feel she is violating rule #2. We got into a huge argument just now over it. I'm really upset. Maybe i should have just trusted her. Or maybe she shouldn't be chatting with her former FWB's. Either way this has been a disaster... She's chatting with ex-boyfriends who didn't take her out on dates. That's what FWB's REALLY is dude. If I had a boyfriend who was chatting with ex-girlfriends I'd be freaking jealous out of my mind.
Author deadelvis Posted June 18, 2015 Author Posted June 18, 2015 She's chatting with ex-boyfriends who didn't take her out on dates. That's what FWB's REALLY is dude. If I had a boyfriend who was chatting with ex-girlfriends I'd be freaking jealous out of my mind. I mean, granted she was talking about life, me and her family with him. But I just don't get why people would feel the need to chat with former f-buddies. Every time some dude messages you, you don't have to chat with him for an hour... 1
SSJROMANCE Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I mean, granted she was talking about life, me and her family with him. But I just don't get why people would feel the need to chat with former f-buddies. Every time some dude messages you, you don't have to chat with him for an hour... She shouldn't be chatting to ex boyfriends period. If she is serious about you then she should show it. I think you should also comply and do the same and maybe you have (I haven't read all the posts). My wife deleted a bunch of chats that were inappropriate from ex's. But even guy friends that she swears were just "friends" sent private chats trying to size her up for an affair. One guy just didn't take a hint but eventually I had her unfriend all of them. If your girlfriend is deleting chats messages then you wouldn't be able to tell what she is doing. I don't know about you but I would not feel that she is 100% into me if she has to chat with other guys - friends or ex boyfriends. It almost never ends well and even if she means well doesn't mean these other guys are not preying on her for a quicky one day. Be careful.
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