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I'm just wondering who here is going through a breakup that's 30 or older?

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32 here. Dumped out of nowhere after 3 years. 3 weeks before my planned proposal. Not fun !

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49 and going through it...my dumper was 51

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Good question because I do think it can make a difference in advice and it seems like the majority on here are below 30.

 

50 now and went through one last year and she is 45. She's still hanging around though.

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35 and past the breakup (which was over a year ago). You'll get there too.

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41....just walked away from 7 years...

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32 here. It hurt a lot more than I expected this time. I don't have any female friends who've been dumped in years so I turned to the internet for sympathy.

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Had a break-up at 30.

 

And then another at 41.

 

A really bad one at 45 (that brought me to this site).

 

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt....

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Me 45, her 52. Miss her YES. But life goes on..

 

I'm warm, nice, honest as ive been told by many but guess i know im insecure and can get emotional. Not her cup of tea i guess, but im only human and moving on.... :-)

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35 soon. It's not been the worst breakup but worry is starting to creep in that I wont meet anyone else and all the good ones are taken.

 

I'm just trying to focus on enjoying a fulfilling life without women now.

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37 and trying to stop the madness. Hopefully I'll be able to say this was the breakup that stuck!

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I'm 32 coming out of a 3 year relationship .. Breakups are the worst but I am glad to see in not the only that's going through it.. This break up really brought me to my knees but I'm slowly starting to find my way back to my feet.. I'm starting to find pleasure in things again.. Slowly but it's a start

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44 male here.

 

Still have a ways to go, but I'm feeling much better than I was before.

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32 female here and cried like a little girl for weeks when it ended

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32 female here and cried like a little girl for weeks when it ended

 

32 male and so did I lol .. Hang in there we will be ok

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38 Male here and I'm on a strict No Contact diet. I just hope I don't cheat. Gotta stay strong.

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I'm 33 and almost 6 months out of a break up (2 year relationship). Has been the absolute hardest of my life... still struggling to get my balance.

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39...it blows

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I'm 33 and almost 6 months out of a break up (2 year relationship). Has been the absolute hardest of my life... still struggling to get my balance.

 

I just read your story. I think you and I are very similar. A lot of what you said sounded like my LTR. I have become incapacitated due to NC. But as I've learned here, it's the only way to salvation.

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32, broke up with an abusive ex over 4 months ago. 10 years younger than me. Still think of him. Definitely one of the worst BU I've had. I know I got through the others though, so that's what keeps me going!

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47, left wife

48, left GF

48 11/12 Left GF

49 Stopped Seeing woman after 5 weeks

49 Stopped seeing casual partner

 

Is that enough now...?

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34 and very much hurting as turned out I was rebound.

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23, 7 months out of my first relationship of 7 years, hurt like hell, but damn do i feel young, immature and naive.

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45 here. My ex is 26. lol

 

Yeah, I know...insert dirty old man jokes here. :laugh:

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