Ariess10 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I'm just wondering who here is going through a breakup that's 30 or older?
Lappin1 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 32 here. Dumped out of nowhere after 3 years. 3 weeks before my planned proposal. Not fun !
dumbass2 Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 Good question because I do think it can make a difference in advice and it seems like the majority on here are below 30. 50 now and went through one last year and she is 45. She's still hanging around though. 1
SoThatHappened Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 35 and past the breakup (which was over a year ago). You'll get there too. 1
Jessamine Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 32 here. It hurt a lot more than I expected this time. I don't have any female friends who've been dumped in years so I turned to the internet for sympathy. 1
CarrieT Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 Had a break-up at 30. And then another at 41. A really bad one at 45 (that brought me to this site). Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.... 1
loveiswar101 Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 Me 45, her 52. Miss her YES. But life goes on.. I'm warm, nice, honest as ive been told by many but guess i know im insecure and can get emotional. Not her cup of tea i guess, but im only human and moving on.... :-) 1
dangerbang Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 35 soon. It's not been the worst breakup but worry is starting to creep in that I wont meet anyone else and all the good ones are taken. I'm just trying to focus on enjoying a fulfilling life without women now. 1
15Love Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 37 and trying to stop the madness. Hopefully I'll be able to say this was the breakup that stuck! 1
Author Ariess10 Posted June 18, 2015 Author Posted June 18, 2015 I'm 32 coming out of a 3 year relationship .. Breakups are the worst but I am glad to see in not the only that's going through it.. This break up really brought me to my knees but I'm slowly starting to find my way back to my feet.. I'm starting to find pleasure in things again.. Slowly but it's a start 1
Unlucky_I_Guess Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 44 male here. Still have a ways to go, but I'm feeling much better than I was before. 1
BriNyc82 Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 32 female here and cried like a little girl for weeks when it ended 1
Author Ariess10 Posted July 12, 2015 Author Posted July 12, 2015 32 female here and cried like a little girl for weeks when it ended 32 male and so did I lol .. Hang in there we will be ok
Gus Grimly Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 38 Male here and I'm on a strict No Contact diet. I just hope I don't cheat. Gotta stay strong.
elephantflower Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 I'm 33 and almost 6 months out of a break up (2 year relationship). Has been the absolute hardest of my life... still struggling to get my balance. 1
Gus Grimly Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 I'm 33 and almost 6 months out of a break up (2 year relationship). Has been the absolute hardest of my life... still struggling to get my balance. I just read your story. I think you and I are very similar. A lot of what you said sounded like my LTR. I have become incapacitated due to NC. But as I've learned here, it's the only way to salvation.
Molly35 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 32, broke up with an abusive ex over 4 months ago. 10 years younger than me. Still think of him. Definitely one of the worst BU I've had. I know I got through the others though, so that's what keeps me going!
yxalitis Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 47, left wife 48, left GF 48 11/12 Left GF 49 Stopped Seeing woman after 5 weeks 49 Stopped seeing casual partner Is that enough now...? 1
LeslieKnope Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 34 and very much hurting as turned out I was rebound.
Seeker12 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 23, 7 months out of my first relationship of 7 years, hurt like hell, but damn do i feel young, immature and naive.
Unlucky_I_Guess Posted July 31, 2015 Posted July 31, 2015 45 here. My ex is 26. lol Yeah, I know...insert dirty old man jokes here. 2
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