Author egalew Posted June 18, 2015 Author Posted June 18, 2015 Sycamore- Yes, you're wrong. For the record, I'm up there in years and have dated all types of men. All types. Everything from the starving artist to Wall Street type. This guys was wrong, obviously. I got sucked in. My fault is I give people the BOD too long and don't cut sooner. That said, Sycamore, reading your posts I feel it has become very important you to point out what I did wrong. You seem a bit fixated, almost. 1
SycamoreCircle Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 Actually SC, the most mature man I have spoken to in a long while is also the youngest... I am hopefully meeting him this weekend. He is nothing like any of the others I have spoken to. Yes he has flair and is bright but what has really got me hankering for him is that he is so damn stable with it. He is rock solid, knows exactly what he wants, blunt, forthright and honest. He is actually making me feel good about myself with out going over board or pushing in any way. I am not woe is me. I am just not accepting that this is what it has come to. After that amount of time this poor girl has a right to believe that she deserves more than to be an after thought.Tood, you know how I feel about your boobs, but there are some scaly insights in this message to me. -so I was right, you go for spry tender peacocks! -why do you rely on men to feel good about yourself? -poor girl? Really? Can you confirm to me any more that I'm dead on about my evaluation?
Toodaloo Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 Tood, you know how I feel about your boobs, but there are some scaly insights in this message to me. -so I was right, you go for spry tender peacocks! -why do you rely on men to feel good about yourself? -poor girl? Really? Can you confirm to me any more that I'm dead on about my evaluation? Actually SC most of the time men make me feel BAD about myself even if I go into the dates feeling great. They go on about my looks/ big tits etc and make me feel like some sort of trophy or something thats only worth shagging and nothing else... Most make me feel disposable. I hate it. This guy likes the things I like about myself which is why he makes me feel good. Not because I need him to make me feel good. He enhances how I feel about my positive points. Anyway. Judging by statistic we know which way this is going even if I am hoping (and visualising) that it doesn't.
katiegrl Posted June 18, 2015 Posted June 18, 2015 egalew...there is another thread circulating right now entitled "text him re: making plans" by ladyinindy. Pls check it out, if you haven't already. The responses on that thread might give you a better understanding of what was (is) going on with your guy. You've done nothing "wrong," the guy's got issues that have nothing to do with you... Sorry you're hurting....
Author egalew Posted June 18, 2015 Author Posted June 18, 2015 Thanks, Katiegirl! I'll definitely check it out.
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