Bobbi7 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I've been talking to this guy on OLD, he suggested a "date" he said dinner. Would it be appropriate to wear jeans, heels, cute top? I would want to wear a skirt, but I don't know...it might be too much?
RoseVille Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Wear what you feel comfortable in that's flattering to your figure and appropriate for the setting of the restaurant. If you have great legs, go with the skirt. 3
fitnessfan365 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 If you like to wear dresses, skirts, etc and you identify with that then go for it. However, if you're the type of woman that likes to dress up once and awhile for the right type of male attention, wait to see if the guy deserves it first.
SomeDude16 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Both sound "cute" from my male perspective... But like fitnessfan said, there's nothing wrong with being conservative until he earns a little eye candy 1
ascendotum Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 If this is a 1st date then if the guy is savvy he wont be taking you to a fancy restaurant so I would think nice jeans would be fine. For me tight fitting jeans is a great look. I agree with FF that you save the dressed up sexy look for subsequent dates when you know he is worth while.
Mrin Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Whatever is approrpriate for the setting and makes you feel desirable and confidence. Confidence in one's body is equal to two dress sizes - either direction.
fitnessfan365 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Now it already sounds like you have the effort part covered. That first suggestion you made sounds really hot. But I will say that when a woman puts no effort into her appearance at all it is a huge turn off. Mainly because it speaks more to her level of interest. If she shows up looking like a slob, it basically communicates that she could care less about the impression she makes. I still have the image of what that one girl wore to my dinner date burned into my brain. Ratty tie-dye shirt, old rolled up jean shorts, and really worn out looking flip flop sandals. That's why I said they lost the reservation and that it'd take another hour for a table. So we went next door to the mall, and I bought her a slice of Sbarro's instead. 2
Author Bobbi7 Posted June 17, 2015 Author Posted June 17, 2015 Well, we just made plans on meeting up/grabbing a bite to eat on Thursday. I decided to just wear a tight pair of jeans/top/heels. Nothing fancy. I'll save the sexy look for later. 1
fitnessfan365 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Well, we just made plans on meeting up/grabbing a bite to eat on Thursday. I decided to just wear a tight pair of jeans/top/heels. Nothing fancy. I'll save the sexy look for later. Still though, that combo sounds really good. Can't go wrong with tight jeans and heels. It's funny. I had an absolutely fantastic date last night. Instant immediate chemistry, multiple kissing moments, and great conversation. She has an absolute killler rack and knows it. So she wore this low cut tank to show off a bit. At one point she teasingly says "I am distracting you aren't I?" Then she adjusts her top and pulls it up a bit. I say "I'm not done complaining yet". She giggled at that. But women definitely know how to work and show off what they have.
minime13 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I've been talking to this guy on OLD, he suggested a "date" he said dinner. Would it be appropriate to wear jeans, heels, cute top? I would want to wear a skirt, but I don't know...it might be too much? If you know what the restaurant is, that will tell you how you can dress. If not, just ask if the restaurant is dressy or casual. Then dress appropriately. 1
KSCHV Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 From another guy perspective nothing wrong with dressing up, I think it's sexy. But.... If a gal can pull off a even lesser outfit/casual per say and be sexy big bonus points in my book. In the end I think it all comes down to the venue/reasturant and where you want to go with it.
TunaCat Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I always wear jeans, a cute top and boots on my first dates. I wear what gives me confidence and what makes me feel good about myself. I hate wearing dresses, so I wear them on special occasions only, and no a date is not a special occasion.
fitnessfan365 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I hate wearing dresses, so I wear them on special occasions only, and no a date is not a special occasion. It is with the right guy. 1
Gary S Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 If you are pretty, the jeans are fine. If a woman was more beauty-challenged, I would opt for the skirt, might as well pull out all the stops.
Redhead14 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I've been talking to this guy on OLD, he suggested a "date" he said dinner. Would it be appropriate to wear jeans, heels, cute top? I would want to wear a skirt, but I don't know...it might be too much? You don't "dress up" for a first meet up and you don't have a dinner "date" either. Coffee or a couple of drinks. A first meet is to make sure they are who they say they are, look like their picture and are on the same page as you are in terms of what you each are looking for out of your dating experience. nevertheless, you're having dinner. You go dutch as well. Keep it short and don't leave with him. Let him leave first. You don't leave first and have him follow you. This is a matter of safety for you.
kendahke Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 As long as you didn't just clean out the garage in them, jeans are fine for a first meeting. You can dress them up or dress them down.
elaine567 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Wear what you are comfortable in, what looks good on you and what is appropriate for the occasion. You do not want to be overdressed or underdressed for the venue as that can be embarrassing and put extra stress on the date. Check it out first, to make sure you get it right on the night.
Gaeta Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Is it the same man as in your last tread in this section? He sounds fishy to me. This man wants to wine and dine you, he'll expect something after. Do not accept dinner dates for first meeting. If I were you I would tell him you'd like to meet over a coffee only. If he is fussy about it then drop him.
acrosstheuniverse Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I don't think jeans are appropriate for a dinner date, but that's just me. Not blue denim, anyway. Perhaps skinny black jeans, but I'd be more likely to go with a dress or skirt, black tights and boots or heels. For a daytime coffee date I'd definitely wear jeans. 1
Gaeta Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I don't think jeans are appropriate for a dinner date, but that's just me. Not blue denim, anyway. Perhaps skinny black jeans, but I'd be more likely to go with a dress or skirt, black tights and boots or heels. For a daytime coffee date I'd definitely wear jeans. I agree, especially he mentioned he wants to take her to a place to enjoy dinner and wine. If they were heading to a sports bar for dinner and beer it would be different.
GemmaUK Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 First meet absolutely! Dressing up is saved for when he has earned it...a good few dates in.. It's perfectly OK to go for dinner in jeans.
Gaeta Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 First meet absolutely! Dressing up is saved for when he has earned it...a good few dates in.. It's perfectly OK to go for dinner in jeans. That is something I don't understand. I take pride in how I look when I go out in public whether it's alone or with someone. I can't imagine dressing down on purpose just because I am meeting someone for the first time. I deserve to look good for myself. I am not only going to show off in front of my date but I will be seen by 50 other people in the restaurant and I may come across colleagues or other people I know. It's like you're saying because it's a first date forget you're heading to a 5 star restaurant and wear the clothes you usually wear to do your house chores.
GemmaUK Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 That is something I don't understand. I take pride in how I look when I go out in public whether it's alone or with someone. I can't imagine dressing down on purpose just because I am meeting someone for the first time. I deserve to look good for myself. I am not only going to show off in front of my date but I will be seen by 50 other people in the restaurant and I may come across colleagues or other people I know. It's like you're saying because it's a first date forget you're heading to a 5 star restaurant and wear the clothes you usually wear to do your house chores. I wouldn't even agree to a 5 star restaurant..that's way OTT and ridiculous for a first date! Jeans can be dressed up or down..or in the middle. I'm not gonna and never have 'sexed it up' for a guy who isn't worth it. I don't see the point. That'll happen a couple or more months in. I don't lose dates from it. They always want to see me again and I never get them poofing on me. 1
Gaeta Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I'm not gonna and never have 'sexed it up' for a guy who isn't worth it. I don't see the point. That'll happen a couple or more months in. I don't lose dates from it. They always want to see me again and I never get them poofing on me. Dressing up for an upscale restaurant is not sexed it up. A dressed pant instead of a jeans will be more appropriate for a white tablecloth restaurant. I would not accept a dinner date for a first meet but she did, and he used the expression he's going to wine and dine her so I imagine he's not going to take her to grill place.
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