Mixed signals, is she rude or just nervous?

[TheCanadianGuy]

• Back in early May I matched with this cute girl on tinder, we talked back and forth for a few hours and genuinely seemed to connect.
  

 

 

 

• I was too busy that week to ask her out (school) so I tried to keep in contact with her by messaging. She started taking awhile to respond so I assumed she was trying to give me the hint that she just wasn't interested. So I gave her my number, said to text me if she ever wanted to chat and left it at that.
  

 

 

 

• About an hour later she texts me. Surprised, I talk to her and try to organize a time to hangout, I ask her if she's free that weekend and she says 'maybe' and doesn't seem all that interested in finding the time. So I stop texting her.
  

 

 

 

• A couple days ago, after not talking for a MONTH, she texts me saying "hey, long time no talk". We catch up a bit and I suggest we hangout some time, she said she's free all weekend. I ask her about Sunday and she says it works for her and that'd she love to. I then ask what is in her area that she'd like to do (because I'm unfamiliar with it). She didn't open the text until Sunday evening and never replied.
  

[darkmoon]

perhaps her family are not happy that she is on tinder

[Gary S]

Next time, call her on the phone. It's much easier to negotiate a date, and sometimes they like to hear your voice.

 

Text is a poor form of communication.

[Smthn_Like_Olivia]

Let this one go. I hate to say this, but...YOU are a backup plan. Something else didn't pan out and she reached out as a result. Maybe she was mad at the guy she's been seeing. Likely he reached out to her, so you got pushed to the backburner again. I wouldn't waste anymore time on this one, unless you don't mind being a plan B.

[aloneinaz]

I'd ssoo lose her number and ignore any further contact from her. Who has time for flakes. I agree it's rude on her part as well.

 

 

When I was dating, if a girl did this, I vanish faster than a fart in the wind!