jonny5ive5 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I have noticed that I have been kind of an ******* to my girlfriend. I don't know why. I love her very much and she treats me like god. She will never know how much that means to me. I have moods that ambush me and cause me to grump out. Its no excuse to take it out on her. I cannot say that I deserve such a wonderful woman. I can absolutely say that I have one though. Why is beyond me. I am sick frequently and nobody could possibly put up with that but she does. Again, I don't know why. She is always there. She loves me for who I am. She is a saint. I don't communicate this to her because it makes me uncomfortable to open up. She should know how much I need her. That's why I wrote this as though it was to someone else. I don't know how to say it to you. I love you like Vader loves black. And I'll never go back. From your undeserving boyfriend, Jonny.
kenmore Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Right off the bat, don't bring up Darth Vader. He has no place in a love letter. Second, something they teach us in sales (and that's what you're doing) is don't bring up the negative. If you two are in a discussion and it needs to be talked about (maybe because she brings it up) then you talk about it. You don't lie, you just remain on the positive side. If it doesn't come up, it shouldn't be by you. Rather than apologizing or going in sheepishly, send her flowers, sporadic loving and fun texts several times a day, Make her a great dinner of grilled steak and potatoes one night and since you recognize that now, by yourself, do something about it by yourself. Don't just do that now to make it better, do it as a matter of course. If I had to pick one thing I'm learning lately, it's that we're alone. F*CKING alone in this world. Nobody is "there to help fix our problems." You see a problem. As far as you mentioned, she has not had an issue with it (yet), so fix it and soon! Don't end up like those poor saps who waited too long and lost out on the best thing in their lives. Good luck friend! Ken P.S. Welcome here!
Redhead14 Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I have noticed that I have been kind of an ******* to my girlfriend. I don't know why. I love her very much and she treats me like god. She will never know how much that means to me. I have moods that ambush me and cause me to grump out. Its no excuse to take it out on her. I cannot say that I deserve such a wonderful woman. I can absolutely say that I have one though. Why is beyond me. I am sick frequently and nobody could possibly put up with that but she does. Again, I don't know why. She is always there. She loves me for who I am. She is a saint. I don't communicate this to her because it makes me uncomfortable to open up. She should know how much I need her. That's why I wrote this as though it was to someone else. I don't know how to say it to you. I love you like Vader loves black. And I'll never go back. From your undeserving boyfriend, Jonny. Listen, Jonny, you cannot maintain a relationship with a woman without being able to effectively communicate with her and face to face. You just need to "man up" and talk to her PERIOD. If you cannot be "emotional" with her, there's no relationship and she will lose interest. She needs to "feel" you love as well as "hear" it.
Lois_Griffin Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Either you're a pimple-faced 16 year old teenage boy or a social misfit. Which is it? Who the hell TEXTS something that personal and intimate and then compares the 'woman they love' to some stupid space movie character? Classless, tacky, and SO freakin' immature. Guess what guys did before they had the cowardly option of texting and email? They actually had to interact with other people. Can you imagine THAT? Jeez.
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