Ouchouchouch Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 We're both dudes. He asked me out for a drink last tuesday, I went and it went great. We both had a lot in common. We are both extremely fit (gym like every day), science nerds, video game nerds, and intelligent/educated. He called me a "unicorn" in the gay world because he thought I was such a rarity for having so much in common with him. After the drink we went for a walk and ended up kissing. There was definitely something there. After the date, I texted him saying that I thought he was cool and that it was nice to meet him. He replied with " I thought you were really cool too and I'm a bit sad we didn't get to hang out more". I replied saying, "dude me too, lets plan for something soon", he says "indeed". Now, this happened on Tuesday. I waited until Saturday and texted him " Hey man, would you like to go hiking at all this weekend?".....No response. He said during the date he wanted to go hiking with me so I figured this would be an appropriate request....I only texted him once because I don't want to come across as desperate or anything. I just don't know how to proceed. I don't want to play games, so I was thinking sending something like this in a few more days, but am not sure if it is too blunt. " Yo dude, i thought you were wicked cool, a needle in a haystack at that. i thought we were on the same page about hanging again, so your lack of response is a bit perplexing. I'm not about chasing people anymore, so this si the last time I'll text ya. I just want to put it out there that I'm definitively interested. Whether you are or are not, I'd appreciate it if you could be forward enough to let me know either way. CHeers!" Do you guys think this is too forward? Do I text again and not be so intense? Any input/ advice would be greatly appreciated. I've only dated one guy for four years so this is new to me. Thanks!
Redhead14 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 We're both dudes. He asked me out for a drink last tuesday, I went and it went great. We both had a lot in common. We are both extremely fit (gym like every day), science nerds, video game nerds, and intelligent/educated. He called me a "unicorn" in the gay world because he thought I was such a rarity for having so much in common with him. After the drink we went for a walk and ended up kissing. There was definitely something there. After the date, I texted him saying that I thought he was cool and that it was nice to meet him. He replied with " I thought you were really cool too and I'm a bit sad we didn't get to hang out more". I replied saying, "dude me too, lets plan for something soon", he says "indeed". Now, this happened on Tuesday. I waited until Saturday and texted him " Hey man, would you like to go hiking at all this weekend?".....No response. He said during the date he wanted to go hiking with me so I figured this would be an appropriate request....I only texted him once because I don't want to come across as desperate or anything. I just don't know how to proceed. I don't want to play games, so I was thinking sending something like this in a few more days, but am not sure if it is too blunt. " Yo dude, i thought you were wicked cool, a needle in a haystack at that. i thought we were on the same page about hanging again, so your lack of response is a bit perplexing. I'm not about chasing people anymore, so this si the last time I'll text ya. I just want to put it out there that I'm definitively interested. Whether you are or are not, I'd appreciate it if you could be forward enough to let me know either way. CHeers!" Do you guys think this is too forward? Do I text again and not be so intense? Any input/ advice would be greatly appreciated. I've only dated one guy for four years so this is new to me. Thanks! I only texted him once because I don't want to come across as desperate or anything After you put the ball in their court, you leave it there. Doing that once doesn't come across as desperate or needy, doing it again starts pushing it that way. He knows you're interested! Let it be.
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