yellowhibiscus Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 So there is this guy that I went out on a few dates a few years ago. I met him randomly on facebook...something compelled me to talk to him. I'll call him T. We met and things went well on the few times we hung out. We are both teachers who were getting our masters degree at the time and we had a few other things in common. I ended up, however, getting back together with an ex (bad mistake) and stopped talking to him. Few months later, I end up going to this concert to see a band that I liked (and so happened to be a favorite band of T's) and brought my ex. My ex was a total jerk that night and pouted the whole time because he said he didn't like the music. As we were driving home, I thought to myself, wow this isn't going to work. I look at my phone and there is a text message from T. I ended up breaking up with my ex a month later and T and I started talking again. We went out but I was an idiot and liked some other guy (who ended up being a jerk/womanizer too...wow do I have a thing for jerks I've realized). T and I stopped talking and I eventually met a guy that I dated for 3 years. The past year was awful, we didn't really get along but stayed together because it ended up being comfortable. We recently broke up. This morning I wake up and see a rainbow out of my window. I posted the picture on facebook saying "I hope this is a sign of something good today" and not an hour later do I get a message from T saying he liked my picture and missed seeing me. I hadn't talked to him in 4 years!! I am not sure what to think about this whole thing. It seems like I keep hearing from him every time I start questioning what I should be doing with my life or who I should be with. I don't really believe whole heartedly in the universe giving signs but Wasn't sure if anyone else has had similar experiences? 1
fred123 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 So there is this guy that I went out on a few dates a few years ago. I met him randomly on facebook...something compelled me to talk to him. I'll call him T. We met and things went well on the few times we hung out. We are both teachers who were getting our masters degree at the time and we had a few other things in common. I ended up, however, getting back together with an ex (bad mistake) and stopped talking to him. Few months later, I end up going to this concert to see a band that I liked (and so happened to be a favorite band of T's) and brought my ex. My ex was a total jerk that night and pouted the whole time because he said he didn't like the music. As we were driving home, I thought to myself, wow this isn't going to work. I look at my phone and there is a text message from T. I ended up breaking up with my ex a month later and T and I started talking again. We went out but I was an idiot and liked some other guy (who ended up being a jerk/womanizer too...wow do I have a thing for jerks I've realized). T and I stopped talking and I eventually met a guy that I dated for 3 years. The past year was awful, we didn't really get along but stayed together because it ended up being comfortable. We recently broke up. This morning I wake up and see a rainbow out of my window. I posted the picture on facebook saying "I hope this is a sign of something good today" and not an hour later do I get a message from T saying he liked my picture and missed seeing me. I hadn't talked to him in 4 years!! I am not sure what to think about this whole thing. It seems like I keep hearing from him every time I start questioning what I should be doing with my life or who I should be with. I don't really believe whole heartedly in the universe giving signs but Wasn't sure if anyone else has had similar experiences? If i was T id be questioning my self respect. A good guy according to you got rejected twice for jerks lol. I guess that tells you girls prefer jerks
Author yellowhibiscus Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 Well in my defense, I didn't know that they would hurt me until the end of the relationship. In the beginning, things are always good. The people that I dated I cared deeply about and thats why I stayed with them.
Versacehottie Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 At the risk of sounding like I've lost it, yes this stuff happens to me all the time. Not just with guys and dating either. It happens with people I haven't heard from for a while, they will come into my mind and I will hear from them within a few hours. It just happened to me today twice!!! I think it's the universe moving things forward as they say. It especially happens with guys though. You should give your guy a chance.
mystikmind2005 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 hard enough dealing with all the real signs people send without adding that on top! lol
deadelvis Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I believe. Look up "the red string of fate" and see if that sounds about right. I had intense dreams about my current SO for years before I even really knew her. It was like something trying to tell me that we were supposed to be together. I very much believe in "signs".
losangelena Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I don't believe in signs. I think that if you want to be with T, then be with him. It only took you two bad relationships to figure that out.
Gary S Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 The real signs are, you broke up with T twice. What do you think the chances are of it working a third time? My crystal ball says you are not looking at reality. 1
umirano Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Alone in the milky way there are about 40 million earth like planets (a conservative estimate), there are many million galaxies in the visible universe. There must be trillions of sentient beings with romantic problems in our universe. Why should you get a special sign? Most of the universe is lifeless, cold and unpleasant. There's literally zero evidence that anyone pays attention to us, except for ourselves and if you're lucky some family and friends.
Author yellowhibiscus Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 The real signs are, you broke up with T twice. What do you think the chances are of it working a third time? My crystal ball says you are not looking at reality. Well...we never really were together. Just went out on a few dates and then stopped talking. Maybe I'm not looking at reality, I just find it odd that he keeps coming back into my life when I least expect it.
Recommended Posts