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I've been seeing this guy for about a month. We have gone out 3 times now and I really like him.

 

My question is, I have a family wedding coming up in the middle of July. I am wondering if it's too soon to ask him to the wedding as my guest?

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Maybe. Weddings scare some guys.

 

 

When you do ask him make sure you use & mean the phrases: No pressure & I'm OK if you don't feel comfortable because meeting my whole extended family is a lot. It doesn't have to mean anything other than you are willing to save me from having to go without a date.

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If it was a friend's or a co-worker's wedding I'd say go for it.

 

But since it's a family wedding, I'd say hold off. Then once you two are more serious, start out with him just meeting your folks at something low key. That way it won't feel like a relationship coming out set up. I mean it's a bit nerve wracking just to meet a woman's parents, let alone her entire family all at once. Just saying..

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