TheOneGuy24 Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 So me and my Ex GF broke up 2 Months ago after 8 months. Everything was always smooth and good we never had any problems. We decided to stay as friend's then She told me the reason why she broke up with me is because she was getting over me. But to be honest I Dont Think she is. She got a new boyfriend a month ago. They dont see each other Alot and well me and her already kissed,made out she even holds my hand. Recently we have been hanging out because she moved closer to where I live. We Were hanging out at her place couple days ago and we started to make out and started to touch each other but no sex. We sometimes text and when we do she tells me she wants to have sex and is willing to do it. Like why is she doing this? I Still Love her do doubt and I can't seem to get over her because to me she's my everything. But why does she cheat on her bf and not just break up with him?
Lernaean_Hydra Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 So me and my Ex GF broke up 2 Months ago after 8 months. Everything was always smooth and good we never had any problems. We decided to stay as friend's then She told me the reason why she broke up with me is because she was getting over me. But to be honest I Dont Think she is. She got a new boyfriend a month ago. They dont see each other Alot and well me and her already kissed,made out she even holds my hand. Recently we have been hanging out because she moved closer to where I live. We Were hanging out at her place couple days ago and we started to make out and started to touch each other but no sex. We sometimes text and when we do she tells me she wants to have sex and is willing to do it. Like why is she doing this? I Still Love her do doubt and I can't seem to get over her because to me she's my everything. But why does she cheat on her bf and not just break up with him? Because you allow it? Because she's cake-eating? Because why give up one when you can also have the other? She wants the best of both worlds and she's getting that now. What on earth incentive does she have to stop? 3
minime13 Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 So me and my Ex GF broke up 2 Months ago after 8 months. Everything was always smooth and good we never had any problems. We decided to stay as friend's then She told me the reason why she broke up with me is because she was getting over me. But to be honest I Dont Think she is. She got a new boyfriend a month ago. They dont see each other Alot and well me and her already kissed,made out she even holds my hand. Recently we have been hanging out because she moved closer to where I live. We Were hanging out at her place couple days ago and we started to make out and started to touch each other but no sex. We sometimes text and when we do she tells me she wants to have sex and is willing to do it. Like why is she doing this? I Still Love her do doubt and I can't seem to get over her because to me she's my everything. But why does she cheat on her bf and not just break up with him? Why would she have to? You can't seem to get over her because you're still trying to be with her. This is unhealthy. You need to back off and give yourself time to heal. 4
dyna85 Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 The better question to ask is why are you allowing her to treat you as an option? She does have the best of both worlds right now. You have the power to control only what you do, while she can go on playing you both if she elects to do so, and if you and the other guy are willing to put up with it. The mistake you're making is thinking she values you as you value her. I say drop her and put the value back in yourself and find another who appreciates you and wants only you. Unless you're into open relationships... I mean, some people like that kind of thing... being on a string and all... I, personally, don't dig it. 6
mightycpa Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Do you ever wonder what she's doing with the guy that neither you nor her BF know about? 4
AJH1982 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 If you love her, dont let her play with you. It´s not good for you to keep being her second choice! Kick her out of your life, if she is doing this to the other guy imagine what will she do to you if you get her back for good! Wish you well.
lauri Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Ditch her next time and block all communication with her. Why are you going to let her have all the fun at your expense? Don't let her have this satisfaction anymore.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 She does it because she can. She's not in love with you but uses you for physical affection and validation when she wants. Stop allowing yourself to be used. Easy. 2
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Does it really matter why she's doing what she's doing? I'd be more worried about your behavior. Are you looking for a FWB or FB? Do you want a real relationship with a girl that's not going to cheat on you? If you want #2, I'd avoid her like the plague. Suppose you find that perfect girl & the topic of your EX/FWB/FB comes up or your perfect girl finds out about all the juicy details of you being the OM. That wouldn't put you in the best light in many quality girls eyes.
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