TTEOTD Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Lets get to the bottom of this. After reading lots of forums and discussions it seems that most women do not care about penis size. Instead of another thread discussing what the average penis size is or is that what all women are looking for, lets see what you are all actually looking for. What are the first things you look for in a man. What do you look for in a man?
laRubiaBonita Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 it is easier for us to tell you what we DO NOT want...as it is much more similar for each woman than what we do want. in any case, re-read through the posts that talk about Dickly guys....
XNemesisX Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 I think we have all written a lot about this before. To make it really short and sweet, I look for: Height Physique Dark hair Charisma
bluetuesday Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 humour humility honesty and some things that don't begin with h... intelligence kindness integrity generosity of spirit
Miss_Prolixity Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 I'm not too sure if you were just seeking comments for physical attributes, but the first thing I look for in a man is good character and personality; which includes: respect, honor, trust, loyalty, sense of humor, and basically someone who's down-to-earth. I know this sounds cliched, but I don't have a standard for the physical appearance. I've dated men who were physically attractive and some who weren't. In the end, I've noticed that it doesn't matter who I'm dating if their personality doesn't shine through. As a matter of fact, my last love wasn't physically appealing (to me), but after getting to know his qualities/attributes, he became the most beautiful man I've ever seen. Interesting how that works. And lastly, to stay on "topic", I personally don't ever think about the size of a mans penis. When the time comes for intimacy, there are too many other emotions involved for me to even consider the length. I just enjoying being intertwined physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. But that's a whole other topic.
Silverspring Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 I look for characteristics such as intelligence, benevolence, cultural experience and awareness(traveling abroad and/or getting exposure to populations of different ethnicities and backgrounds, environmental awareness, humbleness, and more. I also appreciate men who possess qualities that I don't have, like decisiveness and neat freak-ness. Physically, I like guys who can dance, has athletic skills, and is not obese. A little beer gut is fine but I'm not a fan of overall "thickness". Personally, I don't care about penis size, but half of my friends DO care. I have friends who turn down men in bed if they are too small. It's just like how some men will only date or sleep with women who have large breasts. The only difference is that the size of a man's sexual organs are confidential until they actually get into bed with a woman, while the size of a woman's mammaries are in full display 24/7 so men can easily discriminate against the "smaller" ones with one quick glance.
ConfusedInOC Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Might as well ask what flavor ice cream they like. Every woman is different. It's the man's job to figure out what kind of man they like
whichwayisup Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 When I met my husband...Well, back then some GUY...He just was a real nice person. Funny, good looking, annoying yet in a good way...He smelled really good (I'd sniff the air after he'd walk by me...HMMMMM...) all the time and really turned me on. Made my heart and my stomach flip all the time... He's real nice, giving and caring, (and can be BAD at times, just throwing that in for ALPHA) funny (but not weird-f'ed funny like me, more witty and classic humour...I think we balance eachother out!), he's considerate of others, and most of all me. Very respectful. Not ONCE have either of us crossed that line of rudeness/name calling during an arguement. Our rule is you can THINK it, but you must NEVER say it outloud! He is cuddly, smart, very smart, and I must say, he has the best penis! There's so much to put down...BUT the weird thing is? I usually like guys with darker hair. His is light brown. Threw me for a big loopy loop! Oh well. Sooner or later we all go lighter anyway cuz of the grey! ( well, HIM not me...lol)
RecordProducer Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Originally posted by XNemesisX I think we have all written a lot about this before. To make it really short and sweet, I look for: Height Physique Dark hair Charisma You sound pretty demanding! (Deep too)
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