elaine567 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 If you are going to multi-date or cheat or break up with guys, DO NOT accept huge gifts from them and then refuse to give them back. What sort of a woman does this? Ugh!
d0nnivain Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I left all the Jewelry in a envelope and gave it to his sister. He got it this morning. I think it made him think about things. He texted me saying that "you are the righteous person and I am the wicked one and the Lord will judge each of us according to his actions." Should I take that as a good sign? A good sign of what? Like others have said, it's not going to make the IRS audit stop. Maybe it means that he won't pull any more revenge stunts but you never know. Also, giving the jewelry to the sister without getting a written inventory signed by him acknowledging that he received everything actually puts you in a worse position because you have no proof that he received it. The sister will testify that she didn't look in the envelope & if he claims that you gave back paste rather than the gems, you are really screwed. Based on his behavior to date it wouldn't surprise me if he pulled a move like this.
Author missymisda Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 Okay guys, this just gets more disturbing. The jewelry shows up back in my mailbox short the one piece I took two days before be broke up. Included is a letter where he writes that he'll never forgive himself. he is ashamed and humiliated. He knows he is going to burn in hell. He let his jealousy and hatred consume him and treated me like an enemy. Then he calls himself every disgusting word in the book. He says his entire life of working on his religion got wiped out and that he is going back to starting from zero. He promised me I could keep the other Jewelry and he'd be a thief to take it back. Says the bible says a thief pays double so any type of penalty I incur, he will be pay double and that his signature on this paper is all I need to legally enforce that. He basically confessed, said he never felt so terrible about himself. He promises to never contact me again but I should know that he accepts and deserves any punishment god sends his way. He was always a religious type that was very into bible study. I'm starting to feel so terrible about myself like I am just as responsible as he is. It seems to me like he genuinely feels like he made the biggest mistake of his life by taking revenge.
Jessie1231 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Then deal with your audit on your own and leave the guy alone. 1
frankiesaysrelax Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 Okay guys, this just gets more disturbing. The jewelry shows up back in my mailbox short the one piece I took two days before be broke up. You can clearly see he is regretful for doing that to you but if he didn't teach you this lesson would you have learned from it or kept on in your old ways?
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