bakerjd1993 Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 Hey guys, I've posted a couple things in the past on here about a couple different things, but just now, i was watching Forrest Gump, and i realised that thats the kind of ****ing relationship i had with my Ex. She would always go, live her life, but she'd always come back one way or another, and i, like an idiot, would wait. I still want a child by here, i still would wait if i had to. She means/meant everything to me...maybe because i based my life around her TOO much? I saw her a couple weeks ago in the city with another guy. We'd been on and off for 5 years, hadn't seen her in 6 months or so, and it made me feel sick...i still have feelings for her! I just dont want them anymore?! But is this what true love is? They say true love is one that never goes, and thats the 'truest' love. I guess my question is this - can i ever get over her, for when she might come back, i'll of already gotten over her? I don't want to be on the fence anymore. Thanks guys, Josh
Plaster Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 The good news is YES! You can get over her. But, and this is a big but, it's going to be hard. No contact is the only way. Block her, delete her number and email etc and just cut her out of your life. You don't deserve to be walked all over like she is doing to you. Your better than some mug she can come back to whenever she wants. It's not good that she can pick and choose when she wants you and you compared it to forrest and Jenny - look how that ended. Be strong mate. No contact is hard and you will fail it like the rest of us many times, but perseverance will see you getting over her. This forum is tour friend too. Good luck! 1
Author bakerjd1993 Posted June 15, 2015 Author Posted June 15, 2015 Thanks a lot man. Yeah, it's like, I hate that saying they go, 'you never really get over your first love'? Well I want to like, completely. It's black and white to me. But a bit of me always thinks that, that, your first love is always your best, truest, the one you're always supposed to be with. I've never believed in loving more than once? Which is a bit naive of me?! But thanks for the response man, appreciate it.
Ariess10 Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 Thanks a lot man. Yeah, it's like, I hate that saying they go, 'you never really get over your first love'? Well I want to like, completely. It's black and white to me. But a bit of me always thinks that, that, your first love is always your best, truest, the one you're always supposed to be with. I've never believed in loving more than once? Which is a bit naive of me?! But thanks for the response man, appreciate it. Not true , first loves rarely are ever the best , this I have experience with
mystikmind2005 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I have seen Forrest Gump, i have seen women like the Character 'Jenny' and my first thought about such women is to ask myself which way is the exit and how fast can i get there and not look back!!!!!! 2
Simon Phoenix Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Thanks a lot man. Yeah, it's like, I hate that saying they go, 'you never really get over your first love'? Well I want to like, completely. It's black and white to me. But a bit of me always thinks that, that, your first love is always your best, truest, the one you're always supposed to be with. I've never believed in loving more than once? Which is a bit naive of me?! But thanks for the response man, appreciate it. That's very naive. It's called "first" love, not "only" love. But yeah, it didn't work out too well for Forrest and it's not going to work out very well for you. 1
NopeNah Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 I have seen Forrest Gump, i have seen women like the Character 'Jenny' and my first thought about such women is to ask myself which way is the exit and how fast can i get there and not look back!!!!!! Exactly! "Run,Forrest!! Run!!!" 2
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 Jenny was scummy white trash who only gave Forrest anything when it was for her benefit. It's been awhile since I watched it, but if I remember it correctly, she only married him because she wanted to be married & needed someone to take care of her & their kid, because she had AIDs or whatever and was dying. OP you need to both move & move on. Move far away & start dating. Delete all your social media & dump all your mutual friends. Disappear so she can't find you. Live your life outside of her shadow. She can only come back if you let her.
Author bakerjd1993 Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 Not true , first loves rarely are ever the best , this I have experience with aries to aries, thank you...
Author bakerjd1993 Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 haha, yeah. It was just, she was coming back and forth so much, i think i just snapped in the end with her. Urm...but yeah, that love is still there, im just trying to shake it now, doing stuff for ME.
Author bakerjd1993 Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 Jenny was scummy white trash who only gave Forrest anything when it was for her benefit. It's been awhile since I watched it, but if I remember it correctly, she only married him because she wanted to be married & needed someone to take care of her & their kid, because she had AIDs or whatever and was dying. OP you need to both move & move on. Move far away & start dating. Delete all your social media & dump all your mutual friends. Disappear so she can't find you. Live your life outside of her shadow. She can only come back if you let her. Thanks so much man. Yeah you're totally right about the plot and all that, and i honestly feel thats how we had our relationship. I would always be the doormat, she being the arty, independent bitch. Me being a soft piece of S. But yeah, just lost it with her in the end, the lies, the cheating. So yeah. Doing me now, and thanks for the advice. Looking at different towns i could set up shop and all that.
Author bakerjd1993 Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 Jenny was scummy white trash who only gave Forrest anything when it was for her benefit. It's been awhile since I watched it, but if I remember it correctly, she only married him because she wanted to be married & needed someone to take care of her & their kid, because she had AIDs or whatever and was dying. OP you need to both move & move on. Move far away & start dating. Delete all your social media & dump all your mutual friends. Disappear so she can't find you. Live your life outside of her shadow. She can only come back if you let her. Also it was like, i confused that, 'coming back' to me thing as like, oh man, ****, like, she must really love me! I must be doing something right! This must really be meant to be.
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