Jonbones Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 So I have liked this girl for about a month now. We knew eachother but she would just say hi to me. She then started approaching me and sifting by me to talk. She took my phone and made me add her on snapchat. We are always teasing eachother and I can make her laugh. I said lets hangout when I get back from vacation and she told me "for sure! I don't know my schedule because my parents came from California to see me." She does only get to see them like once or twice a year. She is 20 and I'm 22 so both of us are young. We have hung out we before and she knows I like her. She also always responds to my texts and not just one word. She makes an effort. I'm just confused if since she recently got out of a relationship it has anything to do with it?
Author Jonbones Posted June 15, 2015 Author Posted June 15, 2015 Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do or what she's thinking?
d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 You should ask her out. She is clearly interested. How can you not see that?
Author Jonbones Posted June 15, 2015 Author Posted June 15, 2015 You should ask her out. She is clearly interested. How can you not see that? Because I have people saying if she really wanted to see you she'd make time. They they tell me it doesn't matter if her families here she would try and see me if she was really interested. With that being said I know she isn't like crazy for me but it seems like she is a little interested at least
d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 If she only sees her parents once in a blue moon, no she won't make time for a new man while they are in town. She can't exactly go on a date with you & leave them alone in her apart. That would be rude. She also isn't about to turn your 1st date into a double date with her parents. That would be awkward. When her parents leave, ask her out. I think you will get a favorable response. You can also sneak in a call or text while they are there but do not expect to monopolize more than 5 minutes of her time per week. 2
Author Jonbones Posted June 15, 2015 Author Posted June 15, 2015 If she only sees her parents once in a blue moon, no she won't make time for a new man while they are in town. She can't exactly go on a date with you & leave them alone in her apart. That would be rude. She also isn't about to turn your 1st date into a double date with her parents. That would be awkward. When her parents leave, ask her out. I think you will get a favorable response. You can also sneak in a call or text while they are there but do not expect to monopolize more than 5 minutes of her time per week. Fair enough and to be clear I wouldn't expect to take time away from her parents. In fact I told her to enjoy her time with them. I don't want to suffocate anybody. I just have people in my ear about this. I'm done talking to them about it though. Like I said she knows I like her. So do you think she would ignore me texts if she didn't like me then? Or how would I know she wasn't interested?
Redhead14 Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 If she only sees her parents once in a blue moon, no she won't make time for a new man while they are in town. She can't exactly go on a date with you & leave them alone in her apart. That would be rude. She also isn't about to turn your 1st date into a double date with her parents. That would be awkward. When her parents leave, ask her out. I think you will get a favorable response. You can also sneak in a call or text while they are there but do not expect to monopolize more than 5 minutes of her time per week. Why not ask her for a date and schedule it for after her parents leave?
doeblin Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 Because I have people saying if she really wanted to see you she'd make time. They they tell me it doesn't matter if her families here she would try and see me if she was really interested. With that being said I know she isn't like crazy for me but it seems like she is a little interested at least But did you actually ask her out? Time-place-activity? Because from your first post it seems like you've only asked her out in a vague noncommittal way ("I said lets hangout sometime after I'm back."). From what you wrote (she approaches you to talk, she made you add her on snapchat etc.) it seems like she is attracted. If you want to meet her, ask her out for a specific activity at a specific time. "Coffee on Tuesday?" or "Bowling on Thursday?" ... you get my drift. It's possible she's busy, but if she's interested she would make a counter-offer. Be cool. 1
Gary S Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 She's busy with her parents, not available. Maybe she'll contact you when she's free again. Who cares? She's not the only single girl in town.
strawberryshortstack Posted June 15, 2015 Posted June 15, 2015 Because I have people saying if she really wanted to see you she'd make time. They they tell me it doesn't matter if her families here she would try and see me if she was really interested. With that being said I know she isn't like crazy for me but it seems like she is a little interested at least There are exceptions to every rule. There are times when I am so busy that even if I can squeeze in the time to see someone, I'm so dead tired that I might as well be asleep, and it just isn't worth it to me. I'd rather wait until my schedule clears and I'm well-rested so that I can be the best version of me that I can.
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