love1336x Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 I haven't had contact with my ex in two months, and more change. Haven't kept count. I've been with my own life, with my girlfriend. My girlfriend gave me a choice to let go of the past, or keep moving forward with her. I chose to let go of him, and I’ve been very happy. I am working with my ex, and lately he's been an emotional wreck. He's been crying, telling everyone and anyone on how much I've burst his heart. My coworkers apparently think it's their task to make him feel better. They addressed me a b*tch for moving along. Me and my girl went shopping in the store, and he left work early because of that. This 50 year old coworker was like, "I don't set out why you didn't tell your girl to stick outside. You should respect him." I am so everlasting annoyed. I am happy, yet these people want me to be sad.In my years of dating, I never thought I would get so much hell for moving on….. What is wrong with people?
DexterLS Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 I haven't had contact with my ex in two months, and more change. Haven't kept count. I've been with my own life, with my girlfriend. My girlfriend gave me a choice to let go of the past, or keep moving forward with her. I chose to let go of him, and I’ve been very happy. I am working with my ex, and lately he's been an emotional wreck. He's been crying, telling everyone and anyone on how much I've burst his heart. My coworkers apparently think it's their task to make him feel better. They addressed me a b*tch for moving along. Me and my girl went shopping in the store, and he left work early because of that. This 50 year old coworker was like, "I don't set out why you didn't tell your girl to stick outside. You should respect him." I am so everlasting annoyed. I am happy, yet these people want me to be sad.In my years of dating, I never thought I would get so much hell for moving on….. What is wrong with people? There's nothing wrong in moving on from a relationship you are not happy with. Why did you move on exactly, if I may ask?
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 I think she gave in to her sexuality and decided that bisexually, she was more attracted to women than men.. I could be wrong. I haven't managed to read/follow all the OP's posts.... Apologies if I am off base.
jen1447 Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 Hm, I'm sympathetic - I've been in your shoes before - but do you need to parade her around in the store? You're gonna hit the ex where it hurts anytime he sees you with her, and you have unusual exposure to him still thru work, so ....seems like a small thing not to bring her there. As to being called a bitch, don't worry about them. You've got her. 3
Author love1336x Posted June 16, 2015 Author Posted June 16, 2015 I think she gave in to her sexuality and decided that bisexually, she was more attracted to women than men.. I could be wrong. I haven't managed to read/follow all the OP's posts.... Apologies if I am off base. Ding ding ding. You win
ravfour4 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 You could be happy with your new girl AND not torture your ex. Best of both worlds. 1
minime13 Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 My coworkers apparently think it's their task to make him feel better. They addressed me a b*tch for moving along. Me and my girl went shopping in the store, and he left work early because of that. This 50 year old coworker was like, "I don't set out why you didn't tell your girl to stick outside. You should respect him." I am so everlasting annoyed. I am happy, yet these people want me to be sad.In my years of dating, I never thought I would get so much hell for moving on….. What is wrong with people? It does seem a little cold-hearted to show up where you know he's at with your new girlfriend. I'd kinda think the b word myself. You know his schedule enough to go when he's not there. Be considerate and people won't think that you aren't. 1
JewelD Posted June 17, 2015 Posted June 17, 2015 I haven't had contact with my ex in two months, and more change. Haven't kept count. I've been with my own life, with my girlfriend. My girlfriend gave me a choice to let go of the past, or keep moving forward with her. I chose to let go of him, and I’ve been very happy. I am working with my ex, and lately he's been an emotional wreck. He's been crying, telling everyone and anyone on how much I've burst his heart. My coworkers apparently think it's their task to make him feel better. They addressed me a b*tch for moving along. Me and my girl went shopping in the store, and he left work early because of that. This 50 year old coworker was like, "I don't set out why you didn't tell your girl to stick outside. You should respect him." I am so everlasting annoyed. I am happy, yet these people want me to be sad.In my years of dating, I never thought I would get so much hell for moving on….. What is wrong with people? That's what happens when you date people you work with. Everybody knows your business. You have the right to move on, but yes, it's pretty messy to bring your gf to your job when you know he might be there. How would you feel if he had dumped you and kept bringing his new partner around when you were still hurting? 1
Author love1336x Posted June 25, 2015 Author Posted June 25, 2015 That's what happens when you date people you work with. Everybody knows your business. You have the right to move on, but yes, it's pretty messy to bring your gf to your job when you know he might be there. How would you feel if he had dumped you and kept bringing his new partner around when you were still hurting? He has done it before in the past. We have broken up several times. He didn't care at all how I felt when he walked in with a coworker. Eating lunch with her, holding her hand, kissing. But I stood strong and cried in the bathroom and didn't let anyone know the pain I felt.
Author love1336x Posted June 25, 2015 Author Posted June 25, 2015 It does seem a little cold-hearted to show up where you know he's at with your new girlfriend. I'd kinda think the b word myself. You know his schedule enough to go when he's not there. Be considerate and people won't think that you aren't. No. She was shopping with my mother. I wasn't going to tell her, "babe stay outside" she isn't a dog. And it is a public place, I am not going to work around his schedule because he is still butt hurt by our relationship.
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