Lack of respect: whose fault is it anyway?

[autumnnight]

Well, my general sense from this post is that you want to present yourself as being different from - and perhaps superior to - most women.

 

 

Dingdingdingding!

 

We have a winner.

 

Add to that a generally anti-sex attitude, and you've pretty much summed it up.

[sandylee1]

After elaine's suggestion following another thread's discussion I make this thread for discussion.

 

I know my ideas won't get the best reactions but I do believe women not getting the men's respect they want is women's fault. When there are so many women who accept to do anything with a man on the first date (sometimes not even a date is necessary) like they are gonna die from "horniness" or no sex it's natural that men will demand or expect stuff. A hundred years ago or so men respected women cause they knew no woman would make out with them or have sex with them unless they were engaged or married. Today most women act like free spirits who are open to anything but then complain when men don't respect them. I'm sorry but people will show you the respect you demand and think you deserve. What I know from myself is, I've never let a man believe that he can be open with me and suggest sex on the first dates. The first dates for me are to get to know each other's personality, soul and character.

 

Discuss

 

I honestly think if a guy really likes you, he won't care that you give it up the first night. He'll probably appreciate you giving in to the urge in the heat of the moment .

 

Where I do see single women get disrespected , is in allowing themselves to play #2 in the life of a MM. They allow their feelings to be trampled on time after time, getting used and abused.

[jay1983]

Another sexual double standard sucks thread. "Why is it okay for men to do it, but not women? THE PATRIARCHY !!!!! Lol

 

These remind me of the "why do men have to pay for dates? This isn't 1960"

 

That's the way it is, all the whining and griping ain't goin do nothin.

[Robert]

Based on the original topic, and the fact this discussion has run its course, any new topics can be introduced by other members by making their own thread. Thank you for your cooperation.