Had an EA with wifes BBF

[nucking_futs]

As crazy as this is going to sound I promise that all is true....... I apparently had a EA with wifes bf. It was only texting.... and while we did not say, oh I want to f**k you... we did talk everyday for 2 months. it progressively got to the physical stage and at that point bf freaked out and spilled the beans. Of course she and I hid this from the wife for 2 months telling her we were not talking. We did talk about intimate things between the wife and me. there was a lot of teasing.... between the tow of us. But I guess she felt guilty or that it got too real and busted. Wife was pretty upset for a few days and is not really over it. I have had no contact with bf since the D-day.

however wife still talks to her daily.. now the bf is saying she cannot understand why wife is staying with me and that I'm a serial cheater, and a stalker and that she now hates me... ( which I don't care if she does, but I doubt she does) I find it odd that wifs even still after this cannot cut this bf out of her life. It's crazy and I could go on and on.... we are now all three in separate therapy... the bf of wife is nuts crazy and does not want my wife to end the friendship she has with her... wife has tried to end it but Bf threatens her with exposing me even further than she already has.... bf has basically told anyone that will listen how terrible I am.... yet she gets mad at wife and threatens to contact me.... everyone has told wife to dump her,,,, but she has not yet. I wonder if it's a case of wife wanting to keep enemies closer? BTW wife and I are having more sex than ever and we always have..... so I don't even know why I did this except for attention and ego wife does ask me if I loved her... if I think about her during sex... if I am talking to other women... and yet shows me pics of her bf

Edited June 14, 2015 by nucking_futs

[Mr. Lucky]

You and the BF seem to be in a race to paint each other as the bad guy.

 

Translation - not sorry I did this, sorry I got caught.

 

You gloss over the highly neurotic amount of neediness it takes to have not just an EA, but one with wife's BFF. Hard to imagine a more hurtful marital message, both in terms of content and method of delivery. Is there a reason you and W not doing MC together?

 

Mr. Lucky

[Lois_Griffin]

Even an idiot knows not to sh*t in their own back yard.

[No Limit]

The "friend" is currently working on undermining and killing off your marriage. If you needed an affair so badly, you should at least not have done it with the crazy type if you intended to keep your marriage. And I do hope that your wife is able to get rid of this friend someday, because she's a great manipulator as she proves with both you and your wife.

 

Counts the weeks until divorce. Good luck.