Author Linlin Posted May 5, 2005 Author Posted May 5, 2005 Alpha, I am asking why you wouldn't? Let's here the male side? Why do you think he sent the email last night?
alphamale Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Alpha, I am asking why you wouldn't? to see what he does when u don't respond. it is a test.
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale it is a test. A test = a game, and life is too short to play those, Linlin. I would respond as everyone else suggested.
Author Linlin Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 Still getting the nice emails but no requests for a date again yet. I am only letting him send them to me. I have responded but kept it to only answering his questions. How long does this dance go on? How long should I tolerate it?
Mz. Pixie Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Okay, why not ask him out??? Make it something lite and casual like coffee- see what he says.
Author Linlin Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 About 1 week ago, I told him I was free on Wed or Fri. if he wanted together for a drink. He told me that he had other commitments but we will go out again soon. I guess I could and if he says no, I know that he really isn't interested. If he isn't interested, why does he continue to send emails all the time about his life and ask questions about mine. I don't think he is just being polite. I don't think that guys would waste their time "just being polite" if they don't like someone. Then again, what the heck do I know? Alpha, thoughts?
Mz. Pixie Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Nah, I don't think he would waste time. However, he could be keeping you on the backburner just in case nothing else comes up. Make sense?
alphamale Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin About 1 week ago, I told him I was free on Wed or Fri. if he wanted together for a drink. He told me that he had other commitments but we will go out again soon. Alpha, thoughts? he's probably got some other horses that he is riding and may be thinkin' about adding you to the stable. no, the ball is in his court. in no way attempt to contact him cause you will look real desperate.
Author Linlin Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 He could have some others but from what I now, I don't think so. But then again, I don't think he knows I have some other "friends" as well. I would be cool with that if he did. Just be honest. I am not contacting him. I am letting him contact me and then I return his messages at a leisurely pace. I am not racing to respond to him right away. Friends that set us up originally, think he still may be a little gun shy after getting dumped 6-8 weeks ago. I can be patient for a bit. I think this one may have potential for something more serious as I said before.
alphamale Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin I can be patient for a bit. I think this one may have potential for something more serious as I said before. that's kewl LINLIN. just take it slow then. slow and steady wins the race.
Author Linlin Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 I would rather, grab him, rip his clothes off and have my way with him though!!
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