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Recently I have been approached by two men who are separated. One I've known for a while, he has moved out of the house and has an apartment. He and his estranged wife (who I have never met) no longer live together. Another has three kids who he lives with, his estranged wife (whose story I will not get into) floats around between the house she used to live in and a variety of other places. It's rather dramatic. The second person who I will call B and I have known each other for many years before all this nightmare started to go down.

 

 

Both of these two men have approached me wanting to be with me, I have said no to them. I said to both of them that I understand how/why they are thinking what they are thinking, I know they are breaking up with their wives and not lying to me. But, until they sign the papers they are still married to those other women. Some say that I am a prude. Not true. Nothing is over until it's over. Plus with all the turmoil that goes with a divorce they are in a bad place mentally. One friend of mine I know was with B one weekend, and I know they did IT and he blew her off partially because of his situation. What do others think?

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You've done exactly what I would have done.

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Ditto to Satu!

 

I have never knowingly dated anyone who was separated.

Only once I had no idea a guy who had told me he was divorced but 3 weeks into dating him he told me that his ex wanted to cite me in the divorce!!??

 

It didn't last longer than three weeks...obviously..

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