Girlfriend

[johnwalshy]

Please help, i really need advice on my girlfriend. We have been together for 4 years since we were 16. I have always had issues with her past as she had been with many boys before me but i hadn't been with any girls. She had always said that she was a virgin and had not done anything sexually with any boys before me. I am very sensitive to these issues just to add. I do need a thicker skin. However, recently we have had issues and she said during an argument that she had lied and had slept 5 boys sexually before me.

Recently we took a unofficial short break and agreed not to be with other people. However, she has admitted to me that during the "break" she had sex with sex with another 5 boys and took part in a threesome with 2 of them. She also said that she had given head to 10 guys in total since we took a break. Take into account that we were on a break for less than 3 weeks. There is pictures of her naked and being fu**ed floating around between people i know and i feel uncomfortable with this.

 

She is the only girl i have ever been with and i do love her, but i dont know what to do?

HELP!

[d0nnivain]

Your young love may not be surviving the transition to adulthood. Most relationships that started in HS do not.

 

 

That's an awful lot of sex and wild crazy sex during your short break. I think it's her way of saying she's done with your relationship. It's time for you to move on without each other.

 

 

Through all this you learned something very important about her: She a liar. She lied to you about her past. She promised that she would not be with anybody else during your 3 week break but instead she was with at least 15 guys in 21 days.

 

 

If you are even considering taking her back (which imho is a horrendously bad idea), I'd make her get an STD test 1st.

[Satu]

Your relationship is walking dead.

 

Let her go her own way while you do the same.

 

It's already over.

[Clarence_Boddicker]

Let her go, she's not the right one for you.