Jessica15 Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 (edited) I have never been as happy as I am now with my boyfriend of almost a year. He's a wonderful man and he's perfect for me (I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I found my prince but I did find him!). We have a great relationship. He is caring, loving, and oh, did I mention super handsome too! Three months ago he took a new job. There is this coworker that he talks a lot about because they work closely together and have become friends. Last night my boyfriend asked me if I would like to go out with his coworker and his coworker's wife next weekend. I was all for it, it sounded like a good idea. Today while I was at work I decided to see if his coworker was on fb. He is. Not only do I know him, but I had a short fling with him. We met at a bar and things happened. It lasted maybe two weeks before it ended – for that guy it was all about the sex, nothing else. When we split it was kind of ugly. He was a real douche. Good riddance! So right now I’m not sure what to do. Do I tell my boyfriend? Do I cancel our double date for next weekend? Do I wait and see if the guy even recognizes me (he probably will)? Any advice would be really appreciated. I don't want to do anything that would hurt my boyfriend or our relationship. Edited June 13, 2015 by Jessica15
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Odd you have to even ask. If your bf is good friends with your ex fb, don't you assume & expect that your bf is eventually going to show him your pics? I'd make a preemptive strike & fill in your bf before he has that awkward moment. 2
LoveMachine67 Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Odd you have to even ask. If your bf is good friends with your ex fb, don't you assume & expect that your bf is eventually going to show him your pics? I'd make a preemptive strike & fill in your bf before he has that awkward moment. ^^^^ This ^^^ Should be a no brainer in this situation...
mandymor Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Wow, only one word comes to mind - Awkward! You have to nip this one in the bud right away. If you cancel, it's just going to come back around again because he's your boyfriends co-worker and they're becoming friends. Just tell him what happened. Everybody has a past, and if he loves you it should be no big deal. But boy, talk about a small world.
TheBathWater Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Yeah, I would fill him in, and be sure to make it a point to say you don't think much of this fella and that it's in the past. Emphasize your love for your current partner.
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