HowMightI-live Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Me and you are on the same level right now lol It's just hard for me to 'enjoy my youth'. I was in a relationship for 4 years and the only reason I would want to get back out there is to find my next great love and nothing more. Plus the easiest places to meet women are places i wouldn't want to meet women. It's usually bars and clubs, and in other areas I feel women are more closed to cold approaches. I don't think about her much either, but there are moments I break down and fall into that mode of self-blame again. Today I've been feeling fuxking horrible. God has been ****ing with me. Two pretty girls sat next to me on the train, and then I saw another one on the platform. And of course, my pussy ass couldn't approach them because I feel like I'm half a man. I'm so close to falling into my suicidal mindset again... Yeah, im the same way. Good days, bad days. Sometimes it can feel like a never ending roller coaster ride. I think its normal for you to experience some uncomfortability in the dating scene and talking to women again. 4 years is a long time spent with someone. Im sure you never imagined yourself back here in this position again. Neither have i and it can be a scary thing at times. It can be hard at first when you had your whole life planned out with someone else. It feels like nothing else can fit, nothing else but her. You have to remember though that there was something about you that drew your ex in in the first place. And whatever that is, its still in you and you still have it. Whatever reason you guys split is irrelevant, its done. So why blame anyone when it doesnt even matter anymore? When theres nothing you can do about it? Why carry that load? Set it free and set her free. Its noone fault, these things just happen. With goodbyes come hellos. Dont let this drag you down man, this is just another hurdle; life is full of them. Keep your chin up. Link to post Share on other sites
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