unknown12345 Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 (edited) There is this girl that is an aquaintance of mine. I met her at college and we would always hug eachother when ever we ran into each other at school at put at bars/clubs, we never hung out. I always got the the impression she was a party girl. I always thought she was beautiful, but had a girlfriend for three years so never seeked to be better friends. I've been single for about six months and out of the blue she asks me to hang out, I accept. We actually had a blast and she was really fun, what was suppose to be a couple hour hangout turned in 6 hours. The next day she blows up my phone and she was the one that asked me to take her out on a date. So I agreed on next weekend, we'll I ran into her Thursday night at a bar, we were both intoxicated, she texted me at 330 am she wanted to cuddle with me and "needed to see me now" I was already passed out and didn't read the texts til next morning and couldn't take advantage of the situation. We went on our date Saturday and it was a fun time, we ended up spending 7 hours together, and she really opened up to me, when I thought the date was over, she took me for a car ride and we drove around for 2 hours while she talked about her life. I didn't move in for the kiss that night, but she kissed me on the cheek goodnight. I then developed a huge crush on her and texted her the next day I had so much fun yesterday and we should do it again. We text each other back and forth all week. I ask if she wanted to hang out with me Thursday and she originally said yes, then I confirmed the day before she said she had work. Low and behold I want out with my boys and saw that she was out also on her snapchats, which kind of gave me a bad taste in my mouth. I kind of got drunk and texted her "if I pursued her would i be wasting my time" and that i really liked her and she didn't give me a clear answer which annoyed me. But we keep texting eachother throughout the week, before I had to go on a business trip and she went to Vegas with her family. I gave her flowers due to an inside joke we had, she posted the flowers on social media with a smiley face with heart eyes. She lost her phone in vegas, but she called me the next day and told me she lost her phone and she wasn't ignoring me. I honestly didn't expect a phone call like that so I took it as a sign of interest. I message her and we agreed on a date next week. It Will have been a month since I last seen her since the last date. Lately I've been the one initiating the conversations and she has been the one to end it by not replying back. We haven't contacted eachother the last few days. Am i wasting my time with this girl and should move on before I get emotionally attached? Lately I've been getting the feeling that it's fizzled and the window of opportunity has closed. Edited June 12, 2015 by unknown12345
Gary S Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 You need to go for the first kiss by date 2 or 3 if you want it to go anywhere. Their interest can wane if you don't.
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