Trendingtitan Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 I've been talking to this girl for four months now and things have been going okay for the most part, also we video chat wit each othere every day. We seem to know everything about each other whether that relates to our bad flaws and our good flaws. In order to strengthen our relationship, I plan on moving to her area. She has told her family and friends about me and they all seem eager to meet me.Unfortunately there's an issue, recently she went to the movies with her male bestfriend(Sunday) and during that, she gave him oral sex and he fingered her, prior to this happening, she told me that he didn't have feelings for her and vice versa. I'm not sure how to the handle the whole situation and I need advice......I'm 19 years old and she's 18
justwhoiam Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 In order to strengthen our relationship, I plan on moving to her area You have a relationship with her? As in you are dating her? Have you met her for real? Or just videochat? recently she went to the movies with her male bestfriend(Sunday) and during that, she gave him oral sex and he fingered her... I'm 19 years old and she's 18 She's going out with other guys, I must assume she's single and you're not her boyfriend, consequently she's not your girlfriend. At this point, I'm not sure about the following: 1) why she told you about such intimate details 2) if she's being open about her sex life, carelessly, I must assume she friendzoned you 3) if you're not a couple, you can be upset thinking of her with someone else, but as she's single, you can't really do anything about it 4) if she is your girlfriend, you need to question both yourself and her 1
J21 Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 I don't know if "talking to this girl for four months now and things have been going okay for the most part" constitutes as a relationship. Have you guys met? Have you guys established "I'm your bf/gf" talk? 1
TMichaels Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 ...and our good flaws. What's a "good flaw?" ... ...recently she went to the movies with her male bestfriend(Sunday) and during that, she gave him oral sex and he fingered her, prior to this happening, she told me that he didn't have feelings for her and vice versa. ^^^^^^ This ? Best, TMichaels 1
ExpatInItaly Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 I've been talking to this girl for four months now and things have been going okay for the most part, also we video chat wit each othere every day. We seem to know everything about each other whether that relates to our bad flaws and our good flaws. In order to strengthen our relationship, I plan on moving to her area. She has told her family and friends about me and they all seem eager to meet me.Unfortunately there's an issue, recently she went to the movies with her male bestfriend(Sunday) and during that, she gave him oral sex and he fingered her, prior to this happening, she told me that he didn't have feelings for her and vice versa. I'm not sure how to the handle the whole situation and I need advice......I'm 19 years old and she's 18 Well, obviously that wasn't true (that she had zero feelings) This girl is dating around; you're not the only guy in the picture. Have you met her in person before? What is behind your reason to move to her area? 1
fred123 Posted June 14, 2015 Posted June 14, 2015 Im sorry to hear that. I have no idea why a girl would invest all that time talking to you and then go and do that! Doesnt make any sense. Also if she really did like you she would never do that. You have your answer. Sorry u wasted 4 months thinking she liked you. 1
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