android100382 Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 (edited) We are in 2 years in great relationship. here are the detail: My Self 33 years old (Chinese Indonesian) My GF 24 Years Old (Chinese Malaysian Indonesian) History : 1. 2012 Meet her and tried to build friendship from our church because we serve together in church. 2. 1 May 2013 she accepted me as her BF (After 1.5 years to get her heart and with 5 years rejected) we were so in love and she love me so much and like to kiss me, me too love her so much 3. Nov 2013 bring her to Indonesian to meet my family due to my sister wedding, and my parents invited her went to bali together. we so in love =) 4. Feb 2014 , Meet Her mother and we went together to Taiwan (My Self, GF, Her Grandmother and her mother). then the issue was come. the mother very quite and if I can say not so friendly and all the misunderstanding happened because they always speak in Chinese, actually they can speak indonesia also. the issue like : before we went all the money like hotel and some expenses already give to my GF, but it was look like everything paid by my GF wallet, and my GF didn't explain to the parents if my money also with her. and the other things its only very small things and the mother tried to find all my mistake always. 5.march 2014, actually we supposed go to Malaysian to met her father, but suddenly the father reject it after the mother tell the not true story. and after that all her families which is I don't know them also talk the bad thing about me to my GF. 6. April 2014 she went to malaysian alone only for 4 days,after come back she ask me to break up 6 times (After get all the influence from the parents and family without she tried to fight for me for the truth). but I reject the break up 7. during april 2014-march 2015 , we have alot of traveling together like Thailand, Hongkong, Macau, Taiwan, Bali, Indonesia, Malaysia. and I did alot of effort like give present to her grandmother at Christmas, and send Hampers to the parents for Christmas, and send a birthday cake for her mother when the birthday. and many many many effort with money, soul and all my care, till I didnt know what can I do since I did my maximum effort. 8. Feb 2015, she went back to malaysia for 2 weeks to met her parents, I went together with her but she didnt tell it to her parents, then I only go by myself at there. 9. March 2015 , after she went back from Malaysia , suddenly she said she want to break up. then we break up with my very sad feeling. we didnt have any issue each other and always in love, but I didnt know why the mother and the family cruel like this. I treat my GF like princess and her family also my top priority. but so cruel suddenly she throw me like this =( I am trully love her and until now 2 months NC I am still miss her.... what is girl feeling after decided to break up without any issue from our internal relationship? how come she didnt want to fight for me to her parents? she was always told me she so happy with me because I was very care with her so much.. Edited June 12, 2015 by android100382
Fleur de cactus Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 Andoid, Sorry you are heartbroken. You have to accept this: That girl did not love you and her family did not like you. Money and gifts do not buy true love. In the future if someone ask you to break up, dont insist. Six times, seven times? YOu have to accept it. She was not your match. DOnt be worried you will find someone who will love you. Good luck.
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