Author mustangsally Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 another thing i failed to mention is right before the breakup, we had a miscommunication where he thought I was pregnant. I asked him if that's what scared him and he said "yes".
latefragment Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Hi Mustangsally, I sent you a PM, please check it - I wanted to ask you a question off these boards. Thanks so much! --latefragment
latefragment Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 mustangsally, i totally empathize, i've been having a similar thing with this guy who gives me mixed messages - one day he says i love you and the next day i get the super cold shoulder, like, VERY cold shoulder. it drives me batty, i can totally empathize... all i can say is that it hurts a lot and keeps on hurting. i just know i have to get stronger so i can overcome this...
wow Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 The question is "what diffrence does it make in your life?" I tell u now that he will contact you one day and be very friendly, not anytime soon because he has a new mission. But when it does not work out with the new girl, u will be the first he calls. Now on you, use nc until u feel strong and your feelings for him have subsided. Worry about you, your family and friends. Focus on the people in your life. PS SMILE you are special and you will meet someone special in due time.
Author mustangsally Posted April 30, 2005 Author Posted April 30, 2005 well unfortunately i love and miss him... a lot. And i know he didn't leave me FOR this girl. I know that much. While we were getting back together, GIRL was calling him. I think she waited for a long time and swooped in on him. I actually found her livejournal and while we were dating, she kind of more or less made a few cutting comments about me. but anyway...yeah I do think he'll contact me again. I mean he already did and I ignored him, which I'm sure made him angry. I have this weird feeling we'll date again. Ughh...i just don't know.
Author mustangsally Posted May 2, 2005 Author Posted May 2, 2005 i just learned he tried talking to a friend of mine on IM and she was really mean to him. so now his away messages when I come on have been a lot about "Hi sweetheart!" and stuff like that. So I don't know. I guess i'm easy to get over. And I guess i'm pretty much nothing. I was 20...he was 18. And yet I'm the one who got effed over. I got left and he got with a girl who is ugly as hell (and no, this isn't me being a bitch...its true) and who is like 15....so wow...that's very interesting. And I'm glad he sees himself with that over me. But she is a billionaire so who knows.
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