Chateau Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Ok, here's my problem... I work in a store at a mall and have a crush on a girl who works in a clothing store diagonal from mine. I don't know her name or anything about her. I'm 19 soon 20 and she seems to still be in high school, maybe 17 I'm guessing. She's very petite, dresses really well, and moves gracefully, which i think is part of my attraction. She also seems REALLY shy. I've seen her look at me a few times, and sometimes I catch her trying to sneak peeks when she thinks I'm not looking and she turns away quickly. Of course, I've been looking at her too, so she might just be wondering why this guy is looking at me lol. Another time she was staring at me and at first i didn't realize it was her because she had tanned and colored her hair. I'm looking back at this girl and thinking oh she's cute and then OMG it's her. She was in such a daze it took like 5secs before she realized i was looking back at her and looked at the ground. Also, to further give me a weird impression, one time I was walking out to my car and she came out about a min or two behind me. I didn't acknowledge her or make it known I even realized she was there, as i was putting something in the backseat, but she quickly RUNS by my car and into hers. I'm thinking wtf does she think I'm a stalker or was it one of those "OMG there he is I'm nervous plz don't talk to me even though you're really cute" deals? And girls, if you find a guy cute, would you initiate a conversation, or just run around him and do whatever until he says hi first?
Marshbear Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Girls want the guy to take the lead. If you want to know then ask her. You don't even really know her so it shouldn't be that awkward if she says no. Don't wonder....
HoldOn Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Yeah, all your questions will be answered if you try, um, TALKING to her. And girls want the guy to take the lead, so go ahead. You've got nothing to lose.
coaster Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 I work in the mall too and there is a very easy way to solve this problem. Go into her store and act like you're going to buy something and ask her for her help. I do that to cute guys in the mall all the time. Then you could strike up some kind of conversation. You could ask her how long she's been working there, and yeah, i've been at my store for this long... Next time you go on a 10 minute break, see if she wants you to get her a soda or something. Next thing you know it, you'll be taking breaks together and then eventually you could ask her out on a real date. Anyway, I think she does like you (why would she be looking at you so much) but you should take the lead. It sucks when a girl feels like she needs to strike up a conversation.
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