limited Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 So, I found a guy on Match that I'm interested in, but it says he hasn't logged in for over 3 weeks. From my understanding, Match will show "over 3 weeks" as their maximum last login, so this means the last time he logged could've been years ago. I sent him a wink, email and favorite, but he still hasn't logged in. I did some google search and found him on FB. It doesn't look like he is attached, but I could be wrong. Would it be super creepy, wrong and a major turnoff if I contacted him on FB and told him I found him on match to ask if he's still single and looking?
acrosstheuniverse Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Yes, if you went to that extent to find him elsewhere online. If you happened to come across him on 'mutual friends' then that's one thing, but to really seek him out after showing a tonne of attention on Match makes you look desperate. You already reached out multiple times via Match. I would presume if someone wasn't logging into Match that they were no longer looking and wouldn't want to bug them any further. 4
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Unless you already knew him via Facebook, it would be mega weird if you stalked him... Lol. He would get the crazy stalker girlfriend vibe from you pretty hard. Unless you were just DTF then he might be game.
0range33 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Absolutely not weird. If you like someone just add him and talk to him. What is your problem lol. I've had a random girl add me on facebook and we actually dated for a few months. He will be flattered!
fitnessfan365 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Since has hasn't logged into Match in a very long time, he doesn't know that you contacted him on there. So you could write him and say : "I was on Match the other day. But usually the really hot pictures are attached to fake profiles. So I did a Google Image search to satisfy my own curiosity, and your Facebook page came up. So it looks like you're real. I would contact you on Match, but the site says you haven't logged in for weeks. It's hard to believe you didn't any luck there."
TrevorDia Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Absolutely not weird. If you like someone just add him and talk to him. What is your problem lol. I've had a random girl add me on facebook and we actually dated for a few months. He will be flattered! Counter-perspective, I had the same experience, we dated off and on for a few months (years back) and she stole parts from a car I was fixing up. If a randomer added me and started chatting me up again, I'd get major stalker vibes
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