The Introvert Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 hie everyone, i have been dating a cool chick for a while now but the problem is that things are deteriorating fast; its actually my first date and I am shy. I really want it to work but I dont know how to go about it....at the moment she is playing it low sayin she will decide whether to drop me or not.....I need help how do i deal with this...i want to be more social with her but em introverted.
Toodaloo Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Erm... No... You have this the whole wrong way... She is telling you she will decide. Are you a dog? When she says sit do you? Come on man stand up for yourself! It doesn't matter that you are shy. It matters that you have respect for yourself. Turn this on its head and tell this girl that actually no. You are not an "after thought" you are a person who deserves to be treated as such and you are going to find a girl who appreciates that. Then once she is gone practice being sociable. Start small with your family and friends then start to challenge yourself by making new friends. Join lots of clubs and get involved with activities. Perhaps an amateur dramatics group would be good for you. You sound young. Don't stress about one girl who has her head in the clouds and doesn't sound as though she would be suited to you anyway. Life is full of bigger things. 3
Haydn Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 hie everyone, i have been dating a cool chick for a while now but the problem is that things are deteriorating fast; its actually my first date and I am shy. I really want it to work but I dont know how to go about it....at the moment she is playing it low sayin she will decide whether to drop me or not.....I need help how do i deal with this...i want to be more social with her but em introverted. She said this? No mate, turn around and walk away. 2
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