Jessamine Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Today was a pretty blah day to begin with but I just found out that the girl who bullied the crap out of me in middle school is not only married but recently had a baby. What's so wrong with me? I get so depressed reading all of these forums where people are fighting and working to save terrible and abusive relationships and i got dumped without even a minor disagreement over what to watch on tv. I just feel so worthless. And so gullible. And on top of feeling destroyed by yet another failed relationship, the woman I've been best friends with for most of my life has been entirely absent and unsupportive. I get it, it's been probably 8-10 years since she's been single and probably 12 since she was last dumped but I need help. Sorry guys, I'm just so lonely right now. No one else seems to care.
ravfour4 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Hey there, So you're feeling sad because of these reasons?: -You were broken up with a while ago out of nowhere with minimal disagreement -Your friend isn't there for you when you need her. -Some random girl who was mean to you is happy? Forget about the 3rd one, that girl is probably still miserable inside or maybe she outgrew her bully ways and is actually a nice person now. For the first one, it sounds like she wasn't worth it and you will meet someone even better, focus on improving yourself and do activities that make you feel good/happy. Regarding the 2nd one, a friend should be there for you, does she understand the situation? If so and she's still not being there, work on finding a better friend by doing some fun new activities! 1
Fleur de cactus Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Yes , the girl who is married and has a baby I think it is good for her. But this does not mean she is happy. Also, marriage and baby are not only for good people. Please dont fell down because of this. Also, I understand that you are disappointed by those who are supposed to help you and they dont. It happens some times. This is how we know who is really a friend and who is not. But, you also have to consider some reasons she did not help you. Maybe she was busy. Maybe she was dealing with her own issues. I know you can be disappointed but this is not the end. Love yourself, make more friends. Keep busy. DO you have other friends you can talk too? A family member? sometimes it help to vent. I hope you will fell better soon.
Author Jessamine Posted June 11, 2015 Author Posted June 11, 2015 I'm just exhausted. No, no other friends or family members with any sympathy. And none local who will keep me company or distract me. And I'm too afraid of running into this guy to keep up with a lot of our common interests...I was very composed and calm when he broke up with me but I'd probably have a meltdown if I saw him now. My rational self says he doesn't deserve this much power over how I'm feeling right now but being rational isn't stopping the tears. I wish I'd never met this guy.
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