thesaintishere Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I won't go into the details of the breakup, but basically my ex of 2.5 years ended it two weeks ago saying she wanted space, time on her own etc...I accepted it and haven't contacted her since. However... ...I re-joined Facebook last week after not being on it for about a year and literally a minute after commenting on a few things of friends I get a text from her saying she hopes I'm ok and if I'd transferred the money I owed her. I sent a text back saying I'd do it next week and then she responded with a nice happy message saying thanks and that she'd send send some tickets of mine over to me and that she'd spoken to a friend of mine as well. I replied with a 'thank you' and that's it. Then, today, I joined Tinder. I knew she'd been on it a week or so as a mate spotted her on there and as she works locally to me it was inevitable she'd see me on it....again I receive a message asking about the money. I responded to say I'd do it by Friday, but this time no happy message back! Coincidence?! I'm not stupid enough to read into this at all, but it does make me laugh a bit that the two times she spots me on things she messages me!
jen1447 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Sounds like she really wants the money back. So much for space and time alone btw, haha.
aloneinaz Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Send her the money you owe her and she'll have no reason to further contact you. She dumped you and wanted space. Provide that to her and go out and sow some oats. That's what she's trying to do.
Novo Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 call me crazy, but it sounds like she wants the money you owe her. I think if you give her the money she's owed, this will alleviate your issues with her contacting you..
mystikmind2005 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 She must not have seen the breakup coming or she would have got the money back first..... interesting?
ravfour4 Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 It sounds like she just wants the money right now because she remembered you owed her it, that way she can buy new shoes or go on a vacation with someone or something. Minimal to read into.
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