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I am blocked on everything by my ex ( facebook , whatsapp and text ). I know he doesn't want to talk to me , but I still feel the urge to talk to him . I want to know what he is thinking . I know even if I did speak to him, I would feel much worse . Does anyone find no contact days to seem very long ?I am keeping myself busy , but it feels hard to get through the day . I'm struggling to see myself happy again .

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Its hard...really hard but if he's has blocked you he doesnt obviously want to talk etc. This is great news for you...at least you know where you stand.

Stay NC, I know its hard, try to entertain you mind, not sure how long you have been nc so far but its a long road but at the end there will be light. Work on you, think about you, you will be fine. xx

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You have just described everyone here, friend. Each day without her is hard, but I count every day without her as a little victory, and those little victories build up :)

 

No-Contact sucks, but it is a necessary evil to get us to heal. I'm now 7 weeks No Contact, and there have been days where I've had to use every ounce of my strength not to send my ex a message.

 

Don't forget, you got along without him before, and you'll get along without him again.

 

In the meantime, if you need to vent, we're all still here :)

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Please leave him alone if he has done all of the blocking that you mentioned. If you did talk to him you wouldn't want to know what he is thinking. You have to accept that he doesn't want you anymore and you have to find the strength to forget about him and move on with your life. Any contact you try to make with him now will put you in horrible pain.

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If he doesn't respond, trust me, you'll feel even worse.

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He has your number, and knows how to reach you if he ever wanted to. What would you even say to him if you did contact him?

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