vickimonster Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 Hello, some ideas that I would like your thoughts on. My ex and I split up three months ago. I am still holding on to the idea that he will come back to me. Since the break up my life has changed so much for the better. I am a new person I am had and have a new philosophy of take control in my life, I have the power. Although not all of my power as by still wanting i am giving him some of it. But I am happy and my life is moving forward in many ways. So is there a problem with me wanting him to come back to me? I mean sometimes it really hurts, but I can cope. What do you guys think.
Fallen_Angel Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 I'm only 3 and a half weeks removed, so I'm not sure how helpful I can be. But you say you're happy and your life is improving. Those are major victories! In that sense, you are in control, and that is fabulous. You're right, though: you don't have total control if part of you still wants him back. Hypothetically, what if you met someone new? I guess the best measure of how far along you are would be if you met someone (not just some random one-or-two date guy) you could seriously date. Would you pass up a chance with someone new because of lingering feelings for your ex?
Author vickimonster Posted April 27, 2005 Author Posted April 27, 2005 no I definately wouldn't. I would take things slow. I think maybe my problem is a fear of not knowing. I had planned the rest of my life after all. I appreciate any input fallen
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