sandymcdc Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 The guy im dating and I went to a party on Saturday we had a nice time. But during the party he asked ne whose that guy im looking at but I didnt even notice I was looking at someone. .. the next day he started questioning me and after detailed description from him I answered him that he's someone from my hometown he is known here but I dont know him. HE SAID I LIED TO HIM and disrespect him and the kiss between us was a mistake. He'd never hurt me this way. Anyway today I went to his work to clarify everything he acted like he's not upset with me but he was distanced. I asked him did u really mean it when u said that I dont mean anything to u. He went in silence and said yes I told him look at me in the eye and tell me I mean nothing to u. And I kept looking at him but he looked at my eyes and couldnt say anything then he turns his face to the ground and said u dont. he said he is scared from his own shadow and that is making him troubled. I felt heartbroken. He got busy and I just left with no goodbye. 15 mins later he called and said why u left this way I wanted to tell u few things a different way of goodbye but i said nothing than just u went busy and I felt like leaving... my graduation is in few days and he was planning to surprise me now i dont know if its a true fight or maybe its kind of the surprise... should I remind him of ny graduation as hr asked me to few days ago or should I keep him distanced...
PegNosePete Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I hope your graduation is not in English because you don't seem able to spell "you" or write in proper sentences. It makes your post very hard to read. I'm sorry to say that he doesn't want a relationship with you. It's effectively over. You need to move on from this guy. No need to remind him of the event because you don't really want your ex coming to your graduation, do you?
d0nnivain Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 The whole thing seems childish to me so I suspect it might blow over.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Your boyfriend is immature and rude. You don't need a guy like that at your graduation and certainly not in your life. He is showing you that he will become emotionally and verbally abusive when he's upset. Believe me when I tell you that it will get worse - I speak from experience. Ditch him.
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