detour12 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Like he acts like he does not know you if you are around him and when we are bye ourselves he talks to me and treats me like a friend btw we are both males
Vivian A Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 I don't think he is a good friend if he ignores you when he is among other people. He seems like a selfish person to me who is getting advantage of you. So I will suggest you to get rid of him.
Author detour12 Posted June 11, 2015 Author Posted June 11, 2015 I know his friends do not like me ,their asked me to stop talking to them but I can still talk to my friend
preraph Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 He's probably outgrowing you. Don't let it feel like it's anything wrong with you. Now, I'm assuming you are both fairly young. People move on from a lot of old friends up through their 20s but especially around early 20s. He's changing. It happened to me with my oldest friend that I knew from when I was a baby. Around middle school and high school age, she took up with a real snooty social crowd and I didn't fit in. So if we were alone, we'd do the usual things, but if her new friend was around, I felt like the odd person out. So I didn't keep trying to go over there after that. People just go in different directions.
Methodical Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 He's probably outgrowing you. Don't let it feel like it's anything wrong with you. Now, I'm assuming you are both fairly young. People move on from a lot of old friends up through their 20s but especially around early 20s. He's changing. It happened to me with my oldest friend that I knew from when I was a baby. Around middle school and high school age, she took up with a real snooty social crowd and I didn't fit in. So if we were alone, we'd do the usual things, but if her new friend was around, I felt like the odd person out. So I didn't keep trying to go over there after that. People just go in different directions. Preraph hit the nail on the head. A person who ignores you in the presence of their social peers is either embarrassed for others to know they socialize with you on any level, or their social network is influencing their decisions. In your case, the latter is most likely. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. It's time to create a network of friends who enjoy your company. Your current buddy is moving on, you should too.
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