Plaster Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 So last night, after 7 days NC she text me to see how I was. I replied. I became erratic and emotional. I am ashamed of how I became, although I was still thinking of her daily, I was progressing. I'm not exactly back to day 1 again but It has knocked me back a bit. So just a reminder to everyone who is thinking about breaking NC, yes it's tempting and yes NC is hard.. But breaking it archives nothing but more pain. I won't be making that mistake again. On a better note things are getting better +6 or 7 weeks after break up. (I've stopped counting). I miss her horribly but that's not going to go easily. Concentrating on my fitness and kickboxing and my job. I will make it through this. Whatever it takes. I will be a better man. Thanks
loveiswar101 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Feel for you my friend. I worry for myself when or if my ex contacts me. You had a set back, you're only human, learn from it and move on. Were all with you. Stay strong.
sowhynot Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 My ex. text'd me the morning after I thought we'd broken up to ask me how I was ... we even went out a few more times etc etc before she finally pulled the trigger. All it did was draw it out - I should have blocked her number well and truly the first time ! We never stop learning, as a friend used to say to me ...
Yummm Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Exactly, stick to NC. After a positive week last week and 3 weeks NC I caved in and checked her FB and got a shock. It set me back. Finally deleted & blocked her from FB and my phone and back to day 3 of NC. Do NOT break NC, it really does nothing for you. Stay strong people! 2
philsach890 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Stay strong Plaster! The longer you hold out the better it becomes, just got get a hold of yourself no matter how tempting those moment are. Im at 7 weeks NC post BU and every week is a struggle but no matter what i stop myself from breaking it. I was psychotic today and ALMOST committed a crime i would have regretted but luckily i had my flatmate hold my fone and did 100 handstands. FInd something that works for you in those times where you are about to break
Author Plaster Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 I got closure though. After her being cold then hot ( if you've read my threads youl understand) I finally got what I needed. 'I don't want to be with you' I had a cry. And now I feel okay. I've lost hope. I can finally move on.
aloneinaz Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I've read a lot on here over the years that many people who've been dumped by their love NEVER speak to them again, ever. They vanish from the dumpers life. If the dumper tried to contact them again, they'd find the dumped persons phone number was changed and they were blocked on all social media. They knew once the dumper said it was over, they'd NEVER go back to a relationship that failed as it was bound to repeat itself. I always found there ability to go through with that very impressive because we all know how hard that is. The bottom line is they were on to something or had the experience to know what was GOOD for THEM. 1
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