jfw1117 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Backround We met Mememorial Day Weekend, she's 23, I'm 25. We had an awesome click right away, hung out at the bar 2 nights in a row (her friends/my friends). Got breakfast on the 3rd day talked for about 3 hours. Little frivolous making out that's all. We say goodbye, but mutually agree that we'd both like to continue getting to know one another. The Catch She lives in NYC. I live in Philly. She implied she wanted me to come visit. Weekend 1, I'm pretty sure she backed out. Weekend 2, she had a bunch of plans. We've texted or talked on the phone about every other day. The big thing is I learned she's never had a boyfriend, and seems to deflect questions about the last time shes been on a date. Yes, she's good looking, just went to a tiny high school, no college boyfriend. I believe her because of how much she relies on her friends for advice in how to go about talking to me. I'm a good looking dude, who's enjoyed single life and casual dating for about 6 years. Problem I know when I actually like somebody, because I usually just pretend to like women while dating them. She's starting to get what I guess you could call "first big time potential boyfriend crush", which is completely fun. I know its an entirely different ball game dating someone who's never had their heart ripped out of their chest and eaten by their counterpart. I guess I think it requires extra caution. Last weekend she asked to call me on Saturday night at midnight. She was just getting home, I was just getting to the bar (ham so I may have booked it home) She revealed she was nervous about me wanting to stay over right away if I visit NYC, which shows that I'm way more sexually experience than her, so I understand her concern. I offered to come up to NYC for brunch than go home. I know she likes me bc she was dropping "like I just don't know when I should and shouldn't text you". She seems to enjoy me making all the first moves, or texting or calling her first. I haven;t contacted her today I can feel her getting nervous about it. I'm just concerned she'll keep making excuses for me to visit her, despite my efforts to ease her concern. I think I may actually be swept away by this chick, awesome personality an all that. Just a fun mix of "She;s never had a bf so she's loving the attention" and oh **** I like this girl. whats my move? thanks loveshack fam
Author jfw1117 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 sorry meant to say Male and Female advise in the title
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