lukastyler Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 i hate when we are just sitting there and she is just staring at me cuz i know she is thinking stuff about me but she will never tell me ive told her i dont like it but she still does it. its not just her. previous ex's have done it! whats the deal with it?
Halcyon Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 People generally like to look at people they like especially someone who is their girlfriend or boyfriend. I know sometimes I do that usually I'm not thinking anything in particular just enjoying having this person I adore in my company. The real question to ask is why does it make you insecure?
aloneinaz Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 The real question to ask is why does it make you insecure? That was EXACTLY what I was thinking. Only insecure or people with low self esteem would be curious or bothered by it. I love when my GF stares at me for long periods of time. I get to stare into her eyes and soak all her beauty in!
Author lukastyler Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 it doesnt make me insecure, i just wonder what they ar ethinking
KSCHV Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 it doesnt make me insecure, i just wonder what they ar ethinking Good luck with that, if you ever discover the owners manual to women make sure you share it. Just be happy you have a gal to grace your presence.
Halcyon Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 it doesnt make me insecure, i just wonder what they ar ethinking You tell them to stop doing it so it is bothering you. You are worried they are thinking something negative about you? This doesn't seem to be a problem with them rather how you are feeling. I love it when my GF past and present have stared at me because I would do the same back and it's just a nice feeling.
yxalitis Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 i hate when we are just sitting there and she is just staring at me cuz i know she is thinking stuff about me but she will never tell me ive told her i dont like it but she still does it. its not just her. previous ex's have done it! whats the deal with it? Next time she does it, just slap her! That'll teach her for daring to look at you...the BITCH!
jen1447 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Depends on the stare. I might stare at my people if I want them or I'm just feeling giddy (tho I'd consider that more 'watching'), or like if I'm pissed at BF I'll burn him down with a stare. You should be able to tell what it is.
kendahke Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 it doesnt make me insecure, i just wonder what they ar ethinking she may be thinking: that she love you so much that you are beautiful in her eyes what you and her children would look like if she could wake up next to you each morning for the rest of her life of something one of your friends said to her about your seriousness about her of the text messages she snooped on your phone to some other girl You could always ask her what she's thinking.
Emilia Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I get a kick out of staring. Probably don't realise it half the time. My other half's staring never bothers me.
Redhead14 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 i hate when we are just sitting there and she is just staring at me cuz i know she is thinking stuff about me but she will never tell me ive told her i dont like it but she still does it. its not just her. previous ex's have done it! whats the deal with it? Lukastyler, the other day you were posting about being frustrated with dating and now you're posting about your girlfriend. I'm confused. Either you have a girlfriend and you're talking about the dates you have with her or you have a girlfriend and you're still dating others. That being said, when a woman stares at her boyfriend, she is thinking about all the reasons she loves him. It's a good thing. The fact that other girls have done it and they are now ex's, it's likely you didn't get that they were so invested in you and you blew it?
fred123 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 yh it must mean she likes you. i met a girl i really liked and she never even looked at me and looked at other guys instead of me. inference: she didnt like me. if a girl likes you she will look at you. it helps if you are good looking
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