BasketballLife Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 So this girl agreed to hang out with me. There's a lot that went on that would take too long to explain(last post). But ever since I broke up with my ex she started talking to me a bit more. One day, I was with her and her friends asked her "is this the guy you talk about all he time" and she didn't say anything. Then she looked at me and said "ignore them, I don't know them". Then her friends said "yall should go out, you old look cute together". Again no denial from the girl. Afterwards I had to go, so I said bye. Then later on a couple of days later, I asked her to hang out, she said she wasn't home (snapchat). Then, yesterday I asked her if she had any exams the next day (we have a option to exempt it if we follow certain regulations) and she said she did. Here's how the convo went: Me: do you have exams tm? Her: yes Me: oh ok Her: are you? Me: Nope Her: aw we could've hung out Me: yeah i thought so, but I don't have exams Wednesday Her: me either! Me: yay! We'll see what we can do. Her: perfect! Me: well get some sleep, wish you luck tm. Her: thanks! The next day, when she got out I had to walk my dog, and I asked her if she wanted to join. She replied "I'm at the pool :(". I replied "oh ok" and asked her a question which I was confused about (I did not realize there was a neighborhood pool! So I asked her about it and she never answered). Then today. I asked her when I should meet up with her the next day, again no answer. Even though I know her phones open because she viewed my snap chat story. Why does she act like this? She has a knack of doing this ever since we met, texting back sometimes really fast, sometimes ignoring the **** out of me. I have attempted to hang out with her before, none were successful. Only the first time did we get very close and she ended up not showing up. (Her friend told me the reason). Other times, it was because she wasn't home. After the first attempt, I ceases talking to her due to class changes. And after a recent breakup, we seemed to start talking again. All I want to know is the reason behind her behavior. And does she honestly have feelings? P.S. Back when we first started talking, her texts were really flirty also at that time she had a boyfriend. I don't know about now.
SomeDude16 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 She likes the attention but is not interested in you. Find someone who won't waste your time, you deserve better. Best of luck...
NC-Thomas Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Move on, shes clearly not interested. She doesn't want to hang out. you are just giving her an ego boost by chasing her. Better stop orbiting her and find a girl that is genuinely interested, you'll know the difference, trust me.
Author BasketballLife Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 She likes the attention but is not interested in you. Find someone who won't waste your time, you deserve better. Best of luck... Move on, shes clearly not interested. She doesn't want to hang out. you are just giving her an ego boost by chasing her. Better stop orbiting her and find a girl that is genuinely interested, you'll know the difference, trust me. Yeah I thought so too, when I was in a relationship not too long ago, this girl literally seemed jealous. She would be rude and mean, and when I confront her about it, she would act all innocent, even taking it to the extent of calling me and asking. I just don't know, it was there before, Im not sure about now. I don't want to hurt her feelings ever, so I always end up apologizing. But these games have to end.
NC-Thomas Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Yeah I thought so too, when I was in a relationship not too long ago, this girl literally seemed jealous. She would be rude and mean, and when I confront her about it, she would act all innocent, even taking it to the extent of calling me and asking. I just don't know, it was there before, Im not sure about now. I don't want to hurt her feelings ever, so I always end up apologizing. But these games have to end. It is in human nature to want the things we can't have. Once we are able to have what we want, it become less attractive / wanted. The law of scarcity.
Gary S Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I know texting is popular, but it's a poor form of communication... you should call her (voice) a day or two in advance and ask her on a date... have a complete plan ready, day, time, place. If you are doing all that and everything right, if you get anything less than a "yes" to the date, they aren't into you.
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