laneyinlove Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 Hi everyone.. My situation is I have been broken up with my ex-boyfriend for about 2 months now. We had dated for 10 months where he even took me home to meet his family in Paris ( the first time he had ever done this). Our problem was that he is a bit of a perve and is sexually hyperactive, player type and I never trusted him so I would act out always thinking the worst of him and then he would deem me a brat. Since we have broken up things have calmed down a lot and there is little drama as we do not have a lot on the line and we are finally getting to know each other well. I have dated other people as he was the one who broke up with me and I do not want to sit around and wait but we have also been intimately involved. He has dated too but I don't think with much enthusiasm because he is too busy trying to finish renovating his house. Everytime he knows I have been on a date he always asks me personal questions like if I have slept with the guy or let him touch me in any intimate way and I avoid the questions and he seems mad. We spend at least 3 days a week together and the weekends we have always gone out at least one of the days sometimes both sat and sun. We love spending time together but I am not sure if he is using me until the next girl comes. I want him back and am not sure if no contact will work or if I should just keep on being close to him and in time he will change his mind. He asked me to go to a friend's wedding in 3 weeks so I guess that's good but then he's not seeing someone seriously so I guess he has no one to ask I suppose. I keep on thinking he is making these efforts in order to buy time and he might want to get back together. I don't want to feel used so please help me. How do I go about this and win him back. I am afraid no contact will make him forget me and everyone says that if it's meant to be it will be but we are spending so much time together growing and I feel as if I have to put in the work so he won't forget and that when he stops wanting to hang out with me then that's when is top. Any advice? Thanks.
BrotherAaron Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 A little communication is in order. Does he know you want to get back together? Being in limbo isn't any good. You guys should decide to be together, or decide to be apart, and then stick to the decision.
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