danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 I went to this social mixer sunday afternoon at the beach. Plenty of attractive women there. One woman I particular, I spoke to several times, each time she became increasingly distant. She refused to move. She would not talk to anyone else. But she wouldn't speak to me, either. What I found interesting however, was that she was flashing her panties in a very obvious way. First, she pulled her legs up in front of me while we were seated, and flashed her panties that way. Then she just decided to lie down on her stomach. She was wearing a short skirt. She was readying to pull down her skirt, but apparently decided against it. Half her butt and her panties were very visible. My reaction was: 'WTF?' She showed no modesty in displaying her "assets" to me but wouldn't speak to me. What is going on here?
jen1447 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Need more info. What's the nature of this social mixer? Who are these people? Who are you? Does anyone know anyone or have any history? What do you mean by "she refused to move?"
alphamale Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 What is going on here? you're dealing with a female 3
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Need more info. What's the nature of this social mixer? Who are these people? Who are you? Does anyone know anyone or have any history? What do you mean by "she refused to move?" It was a combined facebook/meetup social event. I am acquainted with a couple of the people, but didn't know anyone else there. Maybe 3 or 4 dozen people showed. "Refused to move" meaning if someone doesn't want to talk, they usually excuse themselves: "I'm going to get a drink/food/go to bathroom/find my friend" and walk off, but instead, she just stopped talking, and then did the things I mentioned.
GemmaUK Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 It was at a beach. I used to be an avid festival goer - Glastonbury, Reading, various VW Beetle festivals plus others and when it's hot and you wear a short skirt in that situ (same as at a beach) you don't care about showing underwear if you sit or lie down - it can't be helped in a short skirt. At a beach a bikini is acceptable so most ladies care less about knickers being visible under a skirt. 1
jen1447 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Ok, so you're sort of sitting across a table from them or next to them or in some way that implies that the two of you are supposed to be talking? And this wasn't a swingers meet or anything like that?
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Ok, so you're sort of sitting across a table from them or next to them or in some way that implies that the two of you are supposed to be talking? And this wasn't a swingers meet or anything like that? Ha ha, no, it wasn't a swingers meet. We weren't seated at a table, just sitting on the beach.
GemmaUK Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 "Refused to move" meaning if someone doesn't want to talk, they usually excuse themselves: "I'm going to get a drink/food/go to bathroom/find my friend" and walk off, but instead, she just stopped talking, and then did the things I mentioned. I wouldn't call that refusing to move I would just consider that she (same as everyone else) has no need to announce where she is going if she gets up. Some folk do and some don't. Either is perfectly OK.
SammySammy Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 It was at a beach. I used to be an avid festival goer - Glastonbury, Reading, various VW Beetle festivals plus others and when it's hot and you wear a short skirt in that situ (same as at a beach) you don't care about showing underwear if you sit or lie down - it can't be helped in a short skirt. At a beach a bikini is acceptable so most ladies care less about knickers being visible under a skirt. I'm thinking the same thing. She was wearing a bikini and a cover. She wasn't flashing anyone. And she wasn't interested in being picked up. 2
Gary S Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Women sometimes go on a power trip. They have the power of beauty. 1
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 I'm thinking the same thing. She was wearing a bikini and a cover. She wasn't flashing anyone. And she wasn't interested in being picked up. She wasn't wearing a bikini, but a skirt and white lace panties. That's a little different than wearing a bikini.
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Women sometimes go on a power trip. They have the power of beauty. Or, have mixed feelings and do two contradictory things (silence, but flashing panties).
GorillaTheater Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 She wasn't wearing a bikini, but a skirt and white lace panties. That's a little different than wearing a bikini. But not radically different. Let's say she was advertising. So what? She didn't like what you brought to the table. Maybe she's nuts. Same result in the end. 1
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 See through lace panties and bikinis are in fact quite different. She was very complimentary in the brief time we spoke. However, she said she was moving in two weeks, so perhaps her unwillingness to take things further is a bit understandable.
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 I'm thinking the same thing. She was wearing a bikini and a cover. She wasn't flashing anyone. And she wasn't interested in being picked up. She was neither wearing a bikini nor a cover over it. She was wearing a skirt and see through lace panties.
SammySammy Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 She was neither wearing a bikini nor a cover over it. She was wearing a skirt and see through lace panties. Okay. You've already said it once. Why does it bother you so much? Why are you so defensive about what a woman who has nothing to do with you was wearing or showing? 2
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Okay. You've already said it once. Why does it bother you so much? Why are you so defensive about what a woman who has nothing to do with you was wearing or showing? Why are you projecting your defensiveness and anger onto others? You misstated the facts and I corrected you.
central Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 You saw her panties. Why are yours in a twist over it?
candie13 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 she was flirty, haha! maybe she felt like being approached and being shown a good time, for the last 2 weeks
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 You saw her panties. Why are yours in a twist over it? They're not panties. She was wearing a bikini. Just ask midknightdreams. And they're not mine, they're your girlfriends. Seems she's not too keen on you, mate.
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 she was flirty, haha! maybe she felt like being approached and being shown a good time, for the last 2 weeks Yeah, she was being a bit naughty. However, she didn't want to get too emotionally attached, methinks. Understandable.
pteromom Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 See through lace panties and bikinis are in fact quite different. Maybe she gets off on knowing someone is looking at her assets. 1
SycamoreCircle Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 What's happening: You're incredibly attracted to her. She's not interested, in the least. You're reading too much into things.
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 What's happening: You're incredibly attracted to her. She's not interested, in the least. You're reading too much into things. Here's what's happening. You are completely ignorant about dating and about women. You are trying to pass off your ignorance as fact. You don't know what you're talking about.
Popsicle Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Why does it matter Mr Danmillar? Do you like her or something? If you do, ask her out. If you don't, go cry to someone that she's exposing herself.
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