Megas10 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) We have been really close friends for like 3 years and a half now in high school(im 17 so she is). We walk home together, help with studies and often talk in school. As we have similar mindsets and ideologies i started to develop a crush on her. I couldn't hold it any longer. So, after implying the thing a several times, we hanged out together. Went to a café. Talked like for 2 hour and laughed. I implied the intimate with things like: She: You don't have to walk me home Me: Oh please, you didn't let me pay the bill (she actually didn't let me) at least let me follow this part of the protocol (smiling and ironically) A week later i asked her i she wanted to do something but in the weekend, she couldn't. Fine. Next weekend, she excused herself going out to discos with her friends (she always does this on weekends). Rejection??? I didn't care. I noticed i was being to fast i think? And that was the cause of rejection. As for now, im playing the flirting game and she is kinda reacting well. I gave her a unique nickname and i talk to her when i can in school. My question is: How to get it to the next stage in this situation? I mean, im flirting. Should i be catching her signals? When to push it once and for all? Edited June 9, 2015 by Megas10 word missing in title
kendahke Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 you need to ascertain if she likes you like that. She might be being nice to you to avoid hurting your feelings.
Author Megas10 Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 you need to ascertain if she likes you like that. She might be being nice to you to avoid hurting your feelings. And how to exactly do that?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 OP it sounds like she just likes you as a friend. Not letting you pay, and not wanting you to walk her home are signs of that. She doesn't want you to get the wrong idea of what you two are.
Author Megas10 Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) OP it sounds like she just likes you as a friend. Not letting you pay, and not wanting you to walk her home are signs of that. She doesn't want you to get the wrong idea of what you two are. But, the waiter was close to her and she was faster than me. And when walking she also stated: "I don't care about the protocol" after i told her to let me. Whatever the case i will still like her deep in my heart. From now on i will start to show that im interested in her without being a creep. Edited June 9, 2015 by Megas10
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