MLP11 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Remove from all social media, complete NC for 4-5 weeks and as fate would have it I see her on a dating website. That same night I get the benefit of seeing her out on a date and I'm right back to square one. **** man. She deleted her profile / blocked me but really took me back to feeling ****ty after I was moving along just fine. ****. Sorry, really just wanted to rant somewhere.
RedButton Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 That's rough man, I'm sorry to hear that. In some ways it might actually help you, although it doesn't seem like it right now. Being forced to see her 'moving on' might give you a kick to do so yourself. It won't be a case of hoping she's going to get back in touch or imagining it'll be like the old days? Either way, I know how hard it is, even just looking at old pictures was hard on me at that point. 2
Author MLP11 Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 Yeah, I hold out no hope for the relationship to continue. I wouldn't even want it too anyways. I think she's interested in a pseudo relationship. She finds faults with the guys who treat her well and falls in love with the ones who don't give. A **** about her. She left me after a great vacation together over a phone call. It was lame. It was just hard seeing her again especially under those circumstances.
biggles6087 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 I know it's hard mate but I try and ignore put up some pics of yourself having fun make her jealous she could be trying to keep tabs on yea and playing games.I do know yea can block her as well on those sites I think.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 11, 2015 Posted June 11, 2015 Remove from all social media, complete NC for 4-5 weeks and as fate would have it I see her on a dating website. I'm sorry to hear that you're in pain. Removing yourself from social media -- or at least the ability to see her social media -- is a wise thing. If there are people on those sites you can chat with about your ordeal, good. If not, well you've already found this place. I am admittedly not familiar with your story, but I'm assuming from the above that you're breakup was not much beyond 4-5 weeks ago. But even if it was 4-5 months ago, understand that everyone heals at their own pace. The point being that yes, the recent experience could be good at helping you move on. My only point is not to feel like you're "failing" if you haven't yet moved on. Again, everyone heals at their own rate.
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