hurts2death Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 and asks how i am doing.... my friend the stupid dint think before talking and said -he is good the same, work home home work.... i know i shouldnt care what ex thinks about me but its wrong... my life is much more than this..... f ukc my friend what should think feel about it? here is my story btw http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/420756-nothing-pains-much-nothing
DexterLS Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 It doesn't matter what she thinks about you. It's been two years. It's over. Concentrate on yourself. 1
organizedchaos Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 OP why does this bother you at all after 2 years??? 1
erklat Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 It's not that big of a deal. Soon it will be two years for me also and I wouldn't want anyone relaying information between me and her.
Author hurts2death Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 yes i am with you guys but my friends low iq brain did it all wrong . wouldnt it be better to say nothing . to give no info at all. instead he said i did sth boring ,,, making me look like boring to her (whoever she is the ex or any irrelevant woman) its all about image here... it would be better to say -he is very well focused on his business or sth... i feel embarassed now and i will just keep nc .... thinking it doesnt matter that my ex thinks this about me........ i dont know.......
dumbass2 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Try not to feel this way. Your friend did just fine and did not give any specifics which is great. She really still has no idea how you're doing either way and that is how it should be. You mention how your image might appear to a woman who is irrelevant to you including your ex (you say she's irrelevant but your actions here speak otherwise). If that is the case, why worry? Do you think you might have an issue with self esteem? If you are doing great and believe you truly have an image that exudes success and confidence, then you don't worry at all about what others think, especially those that are irrelevant to you. Just trying to help to get to the root of why you are having such an issue with this after 2 years. It truly seems like it should be meaningless to you and that you should just brush it off as no big deal at all. 2
Author hurts2death Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 i dont know but i have this weird feeling that my friend says lyes... he mentioned some secs later from asking him to tell me the insidence that a friend of him works for pyramid scheme company of nutrionion ... thing is ex is doing this too... so either more were said between them or sth deeper goes on... my luck ,, should i cut this friend? what if he says the truth? i will never learn it my luck again i mean f uck it what was the chance of them getting to meet in a city capital 2 years later.... but my gat never lied to me so.....
NopeNah Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 i dont know but i have this weird feeling that my friend says lyes... he mentioned some secs later from asking him to tell me the insidence that a friend of him works for pyramid scheme company of nutrionion ... thing is ex is doing this too... so either more were said between them or sth deeper goes on... my luck ,, should i cut this friend? what if he says the truth? i will never learn it my luck again i mean f uck it what was the chance of them getting to meet in a city capital 2 years later.... but my gat never lied to me so..... Your "image" is what you look at in the mirror everyday. How you feel/think about yourself. Not how some ex from 2yrs ago,or anyone else, looks at you. Come'on,man!
Author hurts2death Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 its just gets on my ego. i mean if any ex of friend would bump into me and asked me about him i would put her to listen happy pharrell lol not to shocase me like non much........ anyway i will stay nc... it is true thing there is no need to care about what a mind lost ex thinks or does anymore...
aloneinaz Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 After two years you really shouldn't give a rats ass what she thinks. Why haven't you moved on to another relationship?
erklat Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Why is that a problem? Me also politely ask people to change topics if someone mentions her.
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