unrequitedluv Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Guys and ladies out there. May I know what you all think about this? My marriage is as good as gone and yet I am hit with a bigger blow when he confess that he went for ONS few days back. Well guess he may probably be enjoying it? I felt angry and yet disappointed. He said I am his first. So does he. Now he went to that extend he does not belong to me anymore. No longer. The fact that I imagine he will touch the other girls like how he use to touch me. I don't know how and what to feel. Now he does not belong to me. But I still belong to him if you get what I mean because he is still my first and last as of now. I am so angry and thought of doing the damm same thing. At least I do not belong to him anymore. No more. Should I? However, I felt that is pointless for me to degrade myself. But yet why should I be exclusive to him in a sense when he is already not? I am confuse. and angry. Can I have some view on this?
No Limit Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) Your resentment is the key dynamic here, and it will destroy your marriage thanks to your husband. You already write that your marriage is as good as gone - are you in the process of divorcing? If not I'd highly recommend doing just that, because your spouse sounds anything but remorseful if "Well I want to see what's out there" is his justification. A revenge affair could have the effect to soothe your ego, or it could make you feel even worse for acting out this way just because of a cheating prick. edit; Sorry, just read your other post. Protect your kids from this egoistic, selfish bastard, and take him to court for a divorce. With today's laws he can't leave you behind without financial support. Edited June 9, 2015 by No Limit
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