Calidude6 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 So it's been 4 months since my break up and I'm now hearing from a friend that the world got out that my ex was having a "booty call" with her so called best friend that she's supposedly seeing now? I'm not the type to assume everything is true I hear but a lot of signs do point towards her cheating on me. Should I confront her? She will probably deny it because who's ever honest about cheating?? I really wanna just tell her how my opinion and perception has changed about her and how she's not who I thought she was, just the same typical girl that screws people over. Again, not 100% sure she's cheating so idk. Or should I just say nothing, be the better person and let karma do its thing?
DexterLS Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Why would you do this? It's been 4 months. So she probably didn't cheat as well and just got into a relationship after breaking up with you. That doesn't matter anyway. What do you expect to happen by telling her that? Please stick with No Contact and don't do anything stupid. 2
joseb Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 That doesn't matter anyway. What do you expect to happen by telling her that? . Yes exactly. No point. Nothing good can come of it. Drop the rope.
sowhynot Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Agreed. No point. If she gave a monkey's on how you feel, she wouldn't have done it in the first place. You're well rid of her, be the better person, learn and move on.
mightycpa Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 So it's been 4 months since my break up and I'm now hearing from a friend that the world got out that my ex was having a "booty call" with her so called best friend that she's supposedly seeing now? I'm not the type to assume everything is true I hear but a lot of signs do point towards her cheating on me. Should I confront her? She will probably deny it because who's ever honest about cheating?? I really wanna just tell her how my opinion and perception has changed about her and how she's not who I thought she was, just the same typical girl that screws people over. Again, not 100% sure she's cheating so idk. Or should I just say nothing, be the better person and let karma do its thing?There's no such thing as karma, so don't rely on that to do your bidding. Whether you know 100% or not is not really the question at hand. The question is whether or not you 100% know the definition of the word OVER. If you do, then that should be your guide.
lauri Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 You want revenge? Live a good life. Your ex will be hurt 10x more if you move on without even blinking an eye. The minute you show you care, you provide your ex with an ego boost and make her feel special. Don't do that man...she doesn't deserve your validation anymore. 3
kasop Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 You want revenge? Live a good life. Your ex will be hurt 10x more if you move on without even blinking an eye. The minute you show you care, you provide your ex with an ego boost and make her feel special. Don't do that man...she doesn't deserve your validation anymore. Thats the best advice. I wish i had herd this months ago. Take the highroad calidude and leave it alone. Anything to do with her is invalid. Forget what you heard and move forward 1
minime13 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 So it's been 4 months since my break up and I'm now hearing from a friend that the world got out that my ex was having a "booty call" with her so called best friend that she's supposedly seeing now? I'm not the type to assume everything is true I hear but a lot of signs do point towards her cheating on me. Should I confront her? She will probably deny it because who's ever honest about cheating?? I really wanna just tell her how my opinion and perception has changed about her and how she's not who I thought she was, just the same typical girl that screws people over. Again, not 100% sure she's cheating so idk. Or should I just say nothing, be the better person and let karma do its thing? What would be the point? You don't know 100%, and even if you did, the relationship is still over. Why put yourself back into the loop of caring about a relationship that no longer exists?
Pastmen Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 She's moved on and don't be her doormat begging her to give you attention. Move on yourself be strong and have faith there are a lot more girls out there.
thekarmacist Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 you DON'T really know what happened, and even if what you're guessing is true, confronting her would just be paying her a huge, undeserved compliment that would let her know just how much you still care. DON'T DO IT.
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