Otter2569 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 How would you feel if your SO, who recently signed up for Facebook, was friends with a guy / woman that they at one point wanted to ****? My GF met a guy of another race one night and wanted to sleep with him. She tried to hook up with him afterwards but they never connected. He lives out of state and may be married or gay but still. This dude just "liked" a pic I posted of us at the same place the two of them first met...kinda burns my ass!
Torii Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) How would you feel if your SO, who recently signed up for Facebook, was friends with a guy / woman that they at one point wanted to ****? My GF met a guy of another race one night and wanted to sleep with him. She tried to hook up with him afterwards but they never connected. He lives out of state and may be married or gay but still. This dude just "liked" a pic I posted of us at the same place the two of them first met...kinda burns my ass! If your GF recently pointed it out saying she found this man attractive and wanted some from him, I would certainly question the motive behind their friendship on FB. Especially if this friend was added after this incident. Also, if your GF DID try to hook up with this man as you say (while dating you), I think you found the answer to your own question. She obviously isn't being faithful to you, whatsoever. If she's trying to pursue other men like this... I don't stand for cheating, and my SO knows this. He'd be out the door. Edited June 9, 2015 by Torii
Author Otter2569 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 Admittedly I jumped the gun on this one. Seeing him liking our pic was a shocker. Then i realized that I am friends with two exGF's on FB. Even though we slept together I and they have no desire to reignite anything and we have never crossed any lines since we went out own way. They live 20 minutes away. This guy lives over 4 hours away. Think Ill just let this one go 2
Author Otter2569 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 ps meeting this guy was way before my time.
autumnnight Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 If it was a life-altering ex, it would bother me. If it was someone they went to homecoming with in 1987, who cares. That's just my opinion.
aloneinaz Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 I agree that it was a major over reaction. I have a few ex GF's on FB that I dumped years ago. It wasn't a hateful ending and I was kind and gentle. Years later, we stumbled into each other on FB. It's fun to catch up with them after so many years and they are certainly girls I'd never "date" again. My GF could care less and thinks it speaks of how I treat people.
whichwayisup Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 ps meeting this guy was way before my time. Yes let it go. You have ex gf's on your facebook and she didn't even sleep with this guy! You don't really have a right to ask her to delete him since nothing happened between them. Unless there's a rule you two come up with, no ex's on fb.
Author Otter2569 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 Luckily almost all of my breakups are friendly even though I am the one who usually calls it off. I'm also pretty sure I could jump start something if I wanted to - which I don't. I rarely ever go back. Oddly enough both exGFs also liked the same pic that I posted.
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